Evaluating Your Associations (Part I)
If you were to evaluate the major influences in your life that have shaped the kind of person
you are, this has to be high on the list: the people and thoughts you choose to allow into your life. Mr.
Shoaff gave me a very important warning in those early days that I would like to share with you. He said,
"Never underestimate the power of influence." Indeed, the influence of those around us is so powerful! Many
times we don't even realize we're being strongly affected because influences generally develop over an
extended period of time.
Peer pressure is an especially powerful force because it is so subtle. If you're around people
who spend all they make, chances are excellent that you'll spend all you make. If you are around people who
go to more ball games than concerts, chances are excellent that you'll do the same thing. If you are around
people who don't read, chances are excellent that you won't read. People can keep nudging us off course a
little at a time until finally, we find ourselves asking, "How did I get here?" Those subtle influences need
to be studied carefully if we really want our lives to turn out the way we've planned.
With regard to this important point, let me give you three key questions to ask yourself. They
may help you to make better analysis of your current associations.
Here is the first question: "Who am I around?" Make a mental note of the people with whom you
most often associate. You've got to evaluate everybody who is able to influence you in any way.
The second question is: "What are these associations doing to me?" That's a major question to
ask. What have they got me doing? What have they got me listening to? What have they got me reading? Where
have they got me going? What do they have me thinking? How have they got me talking? How have they got me
feeling? What have they got me saying? You've got to make a serious study of how others are influencing you,
both negatively and positively.
Here's a final question: "Is that okay?" Maybe everyone you associate with has been a positive,
energizing influence. Then again, maybe there are some bad apples in the bunch. All I'm suggesting here is
that you take a close and objective look. Everything is worth a second look, especially the power of
influence. Both will take you somewhere, but only one will take you in the direction you need to
go.
It's easy to just dismiss the things that influence our lives. One man say's, "I live here, but
I don't think it matters. I'm around these people, but I don't think it hurts." I would take another look at
that. Remember, everything matters! Sure, some things matter more than others, but everything amounts to
something. You've got to keep checking to find out whether your associations are tipping the scales toward
the positive or toward the negative. Ignorance is never the best policy. Finding out is the best
policy.
Perhaps you've heard the story of the little bird. He had his wing over his eye and he was
crying. The owl said to the bird, "You are crying." "Yes," said the little bird, and he pulled his wing away
from his eye. "Oh, I see," said the owl. "You're crying because the big bird pecked out your eye." And the
little bird said, "No, I'm not crying because the big bird pecked out my eye. I'm crying because I let
him."
It's easy to let influence shape our lives, to let associations determine our direction, to let
pressures overwhelm us, and to let tides take us. The big question is, are we letting ourselves become what
we wish to become?
In Part II we'll take a look at the three forms of disassociating from negative influences.
Until then,
To Your Success,
Jim Rohn
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Wherever You Are, Be There
One of the major reasons why we fail to find happiness or to create a unique lifestyle is
because we have not yet mastered the art of being.
While we are home our thoughts are still absorbed with solving the challenges we face at the
office. And when we are at the office we find ourselves worrying about problems at home.
We go through the day without really listening to what others are saying to us. We may be
hearing the words, but we aren't absorbing the message.
As we go through the day we find ourselves focusing on past experiences or future possibilities.
We are so involved in yesterday and tomorrow that we never even notice that today is slipping by.
We go through the day rather than getting something from the day. We are everywhere at any given
moment in time except living in that moment in time.
Lifestyle is learning to be wherever you are. It is developing a unique focus on the current
moment, and drawing from it all of the substance and wealth of experience and emotions that it has to offer.
Lifestyle is taking time to watch a sunset. Lifestyle is listening to silence. Lifestyle is capturing each
moment so that it becomes a new part of what we are and of what we are in the process of becoming. Lifestyle
is not something we do; it is something we experience. And until we learn to be there, we will never master
the art of living well.
To Your Success,
Jim Rohn
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Attitude Is Everything
The process of human change begins within us. We all have tremendous potential. We all desire
good results from our efforts. Most of us are willing to work hard and to pay the price that success and
happiness demand.
Each of us has the ability to put our unique human potential into action and to acquire a
desired result. But the one thing that determines the level of our potential, that produces the intensity of
our activity, and that predicts the quality of the result we receive is our attitude.
Attitude determines how much of the future we are allowed to see. It decides the size of our
dreams and influences our determination when we are faced with new challenges. No other person on earth has
dominion over our attitude. People can affect our attitude by teaching us poor thinking habits or
unintentionally misinforming us or providing us with negative sources of influence, but no one can control
our attitude unless we voluntarily surrender that control.
No one else "makes us angry." We make ourselves angry when we surrender control of our attitude.
What someone else may have done is irrelevant. We choose, not they. They merely put our attitude to a test.
If we select a volatile attitude by becoming hostile, angry, jealous or suspicious, then we have failed the
test. If we condemn ourselves by believing that we are unworthy, then again, we have failed the
test.
If we care at all about ourselves, then we must accept full responsibility for our own feelings.
We must learn to guard against those feelings that have the capacity to lead our attitude down the wrong path
and to strengthen those feelings that can lead us confidently into a better future.
If we want to receive the rewards the future holds in trust for us, then we must exercise the
most important choice given to us as members of the human race by maintaining total dominion over our
attitude. Our attitude is an asset, a treasure of great value, which must be protected accordingly. Beware of
the vandals and thieves among us who would injure our positive attitude or seek to steal it away.
Having the right attitude is one of the basics that success requires. The combination of a sound
personal philosophy and a positive attitude about ourselves and the world around us gives us an inner
strength and a firm resolve that influences all the other areas of our existence.
To Your Success,
Jim Rohn
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The Miracle of Personal Development
One day Mr. Shoaff said, "Jim, if you want to be wealthy and happy, learn this lesson well:
Learn to work harder on yourself than you do on your job."
Since that time I've been working on my own personal development. And I must admit that this has
been the most challenging assignment of all. This business of personal development lasts a
lifetime.
You see, what you become is far more important than what you get. The important question to ask
on the job is not, "What am I getting?" Instead, you should ask, "What am I becoming?" Getting and becoming
are like Siamese twins: What you become directly influences what you get. Think of it this way: Most of what
you have today you have attracted by becoming the person you are today.
I've also found that income rarely exceeds personal development. Sometimes income takes a lucky
jump, but unless you learn to handle the responsibilities that come with it, it will usually shrink back to
the amount you can handle.
If someone hands you a million dollars, you'd better hurry up and become a millionaire. A very
rich man once said, "If you took all the money in the world and divided it equally among everybody, it would
soon be back in the same pockets it was before."
It is hard to keep that which has not been obtained through personal development
So here's the great axiom of life:
--To Have More Than You've Got, Become More Than You Are--
This is where you should focus most of your attention. Otherwise, you just might have to contend
with the axiom of not changing, which is:
--Unless You Change How You Are, You'll Always Have What You've Got--
To Your Success,
Jim Rohn
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Establishing Dreams and Goals
One of the amazing things we have been given as humans is the unquenchable desire to have dreams
of a better life, and the ability to establish goals to live out those dreams. Think of it: We can look deep
within our hearts and dream of a better situation for ourselves and our families; dream of better financial
lives and better emotional or physical lives; certainly dream of better spiritual lives. But what makes this
even more powerful is that we have also been given the ability to not only dream but to pursue those dreams
and not only to pursue them, but the cognitive ability to actually lay out a plan and strategies (setting
goals) to achieve those dreams. Powerful! And that is what we will discuss in detail this week: How to dream
dreams and establish goals to get those dreams.
What are your dreams and goals? This isn't what you already have or what you have done, but what
you want. Have you ever really sat down and thought through your life values and decided what you really
want? Have you ever taken the time to truly reflect, to listen quietly to your heart, to see what dreams live
within you? Your dreams are there. Everyone has them. They may live right on the surface, or they may be
buried deep from years of others telling you they were foolish, but they are there.
So how do we know what our dreams are? This is an interesting process and it relates primarily
to the art of listening. This is not listening to others; it is listening to yourself. If we listen to
others, we hear their plans and dreams (and many will try to put their plans and dreams on us). If we listen
to others, we can never be fulfilled. We will only chase elusive dreams that are not rooted deep within us.
No, we must listen to our own hearts.
Let's take a look at some practical steps/thoughts on hearing from our hearts on what our dreams
are:
Take time to be quiet. This is something that we don't do enough in this busy world of ours. We
rush, rush, rush, and we are constantly listening to noise all around us. The human heart was meant for times
of quiet, to peer deep within. It is when we do this that our hearts are set free to soar and take flight on
the wings of our own dreams! Schedule some quiet "dream time" this week. No other people. No cell phone. No
computer. Just you, a pad, a pen, and your thoughts (you get to do this in the workbook exercises this
week).
Think about what really thrills you. When you are quiet, think about those things that really
get your blood moving. What would you LOVE to do, either for fun or for a living? What would you love to
accomplish? What would you try if you were guaranteed to succeed? What big thoughts move your heart into a
state of excitement and joy? When you answer these questions you will feel Great and you will be in the
"dream zone." It is only when we get to this point that we experience what Our dreams are!
Write down all of your dreams as you have them. Don't think of any as too outlandish or foolish
remember, you're dreaming! Let the thoughts fly and take careful record.
Now, prioritize those dreams. Which are most important? Which are most feasible? Which would you
love to do the most? Put them in the order in which you will actually try to attain them. Remember, we are
always moving toward action, not just dreaming.
Here is the big picture: Life is too short to not pursue your dreams. Someday your life will
near its end and all you will be able to do is look backwards. You can reflect with joy or regret. Those who
dream, who set goals and act on them to live out their dreams are those who live lives of joy and have a
sense of peace when they near the end of their lives. They have finished well, for themselves and for their
families.
Remember: These are the dreams and goals that are born out of your heart and mind. These are the
goals that are unique to you and come from who you were created to be and gifted to become. Your specific
goals are what you want to attain because they are what will make your life joyful and bring your family's
life into congruence with what you want it to be.
Until next week, let's do something remarkable!
Jim Rohn
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Enterpriseis Better Than Ease
If we are involved in a project, how hard should we work at it? How much time should we put
in?
Our philosophy about activity and our attitude about hard work will affect the quality of our
lives. What we decide about the rightful ratio of labor to rest will establish a certain work ethic. That
work ethic - our attitude about the amount of labor we are willing to commit to future fortune - will
determine how substantial or how meager that fortune turns out to be.
Enterprise is always better than ease. Every time we choose to do less than we could, this error in
judgment has an effect on our self-confidence. Repeated every day, we soon find ourselves not only doing less
than we should, but also being less than we could. The accumulative effect of this error in judgment can be
devastating.
--- FORTUNATELY, IT IS EASY TO REVERSE THE PROCESS ---
Any day we choose we can develop a new discipline of doing rather than neglecting. Every time we
choose action over ease or labor over rest, we develop an increasing level of self-worth, self-respect and
self-confidence. In the final analysis, it is how we feel about ourselves that provides the greatest reward
from any activity. It is not what we get that makes us valuable, it is what we become in the process of doing
that brings value into our lives. It is activity that converts human dreams into human reality, and that
conversion from idea into actuality gives us a personal value that can come from no other source.
So feel free to not only engage in enterprise, but also to enjoy it to it's fullest along with
all the benefits that are soon to come!
To Your Success,
Jim Rohn
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Become a Good Observer
We must never allow a day to pass without finding the answers to a list of important questions
such as: What is going on in our industry? What new challenges are currently facing our government? Our
community? Our neighborhood? What are the new breakthroughs, the new opportunities, the new tools and
techniques that have recently come to light? Who are the new personalities that are influencing world and
local opinion?
We must become good observers and astute evaluators of all that is going on around us. All
events affect us, and what affects us leaves an imprint on what we will one day be and how we will one day
live.
One of the major reasons why people are not doing well is because they keep trying to get
through the day. A more worthy challenge is to try to get from the day. We must become sensitive enough to
observe and ponder what is happening around us. Be alert. Be awake. Let life and all of its subtle messages
touch us. Often, the most extraordinary opportunities are hidden among the seemingly insignificant events of
life. If we do not pay attention to these events, we can easily miss the opportunities.
So be a good observer of both life and the world around you.
To Your Success,
Jim Rohn
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Multiple Skills for the 21st Century
I find it's important to not walk into the beginning part of this 21st Century
without multiple skills. But what I also find is that if you are already in sales, network marketing or have
an entrepreneurial business (or plan to in the future), you can gain the needed skills for the future while
you create your income now.
Here's my short list for on the job training, so that you can learn while you earn.
1) SALES
I began my journey with sales, which of course dynamically changed my life back at age 25. The
first year I multiplied my income by five. I was raised in farm country. I knew how to milk cows, but it
didn't pay well. But sales altered the course of my life, learning to present a valid product in the
marketplace, talk about its virtues and get somebody to say "yes." And then give them good
service.
2) RECRUITING
Then came recruiting, how to expand my business, build an organization. We have all heard the
question, is it better to have one person selling a $1000 or have 100 people selling $10? If you ask me, I'll
take the 100 at $10. Recruiting, the ability to multiply your efforts, once mastered, is one of life and
leadership's greatest time management resources.
3) ORGANIZING
Then I learned organizing. Keeping your own schedule can be difficult at times, but now you have
to balance multiple tasks and people to get maximum results. But you will find that the payoff is massive
once you have tapped into the synergy and momentum of group dynamics and teamwork.
4) PROMOTION
Next is promotion. First it's the spring campaign and then the fall campaign, and then it's this
month's objective's campaign. You never know when it's going to click for someone to want or need to buy from
you or be a part of what you are doing, so having the offer or the special or the contest going when they're
ready can make all the difference.
5) RECOGNITION
Then it's the recognition. Some people work harder for recognition than they do for money. It's
the chance to belong. Getting people to do something that ordinarily on their own, they wouldn't think of
doing. They could, but they don't think of it. You come along with a little promotion for this month or this
quarter and everything changes for them, and I found that paid big money.
6) COMMUNICATION
Then I learned communication. How to do the training, how to do the teaching, and probably the
greatest gift of all is learning how to inspire with words. Inspire people to see themselves better than they
are; all of those gifts, all of those skills. Being the voice that tells them they have made a wise decision
and here's why.
Now, I believe that as you walk into this century with just that little short list I've given
you, you'll be equipped. We've all watched what has happened the last 15 years. The guy had one skill - the
company downsizes. His division is eliminated and since he only had one skill, now he is vulnerable. He's
wandering around saying, "Oh my, the last few years I should have taken some classes that would have taught
me a couple of more things and I wouldn't be here in this vulnerable position."
So my admonition -- learn some multiple skills, or should we say, back-up skills for the 21st
Century and no better place to learn them than in what youre already doing now.
To Your Success,
Jim Rohn
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Don't Be a Complainer
Complaining. There's room for legitimate complaining, but if you let this deadly disease of
attitude - complaining loose, it will conquer you. Complaining can take over your life. Destroy you and leave
you without anything. Nobody wants to take along a complainer. Nobody wants to promote a complainer. Nobody
wants to live with one. Nobody wants to be a partner of one. Nobody wants to have one around. Complaining
leaves you out of more opportunities than you can possibly imagine if you let it take over and grab you by
the throat. If you don't think complaining is bad ask the children of Israel of Old Testament fame. Now let
me say something right here, they are typical of us all (if we had ourselves in a similar position); their
story just happened to get in the Book.
The story says that the children of Israel are slaves in Egypt. God performed a series of
dazzling miracles and gets them out. Now they have their freedom and are heading for the Promised Land.
But... the tragedy of the story - they never got there. Reason - from day one they started to
complain.
They griped about the food - they had just been delivered from slavery and they are complaining
about the food?! They complained and cried and griped about the water. In the desert they HAD water to drink,
but... it didn't taste that good?! They complained about the leadership... that had just delivered them from
slavery?! They complained that it was too hot, too cold, too far, too difficult, too rocky. They cried for
years - forty to be exact. Finally, God said I've had it trip cancelled!
The story says that they died in the desert and never reached the Promised Land - after all that
trouble! I believe this story teaches two things:
1) Indulge in complaining long enough and you will get your future cancelled - future
promotions, future opportunities.
2) Even God himself can only take so much complaining.
I think you get my point. Complaining is not for the winners in life. You must focus on what you
can do, not what you cannot. And you must focus on the opportunities not the difficulties. When you do this
you will not only inspire yourself but you will be an example for others to follow as well.
To Your Success,
Jim Rohn
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Walking a New Road (excerpted from the Take Charge of Your Life 6 CD series)
Here is a good question to ask yourself. Ten years from now you will surely arrive. The question
is, where? We don't want to kid ourselves about where; we don't want to kid ourselves about the road we're
walking.
At age 25, I had a day shortly after I met Mr. Schoaff called "do not kid myself anymore" day. I
didn't want to be disillusioned anymore. Up until then, I had been using the crossed-finger theory. But after
meeting Mr. Schoaff, I finally decided that the crossed-finger theory was not going to get me what I wanted.
That it wasn't where the treasure lies. That I was going to have to make sure which way I was
headed
Then, with the help of Mr. Schoaff, I found with a few reading disciplines, and a few
disciplines of mind, and a few disciplines of activity, that when exercised, can begin making all the
difference in the world as to where you will arrive.
Just a few changes. Sometimes we get the idea that we're doing about 10% and there's about 90%
more that we need in order to make the difference for our fortune but probably the opposite is true. We're
doing enough things to have bought and shared in the good life so far. And maybe all we need is that extra 5%
or 10% of intellectual change. Activity change. A refinement of discipline. A refinement of thought. And all
we need is the ideas to make those simple changes and the equity starts gathering in one year, three years,
five years, ten years.
I have a good comment for you: Now's the time to fix the next 10 years. Now, you may have to
come to grips with reality and with truth; that's what was good for me when I met Mr. Schoaff, I was 25 years
old, he was 44 years old. And he brought me a wealth of experience and he started asking me the tough
questions. "Big question", he said, "Are you reading the books that are going to take you where you want to
go in the next 5 years?"
Excellent question. See, you want to make sure. I would assume for all of you, to get to where
you want to be in the next 5 years, you are either reading the right books or you're not. You're either
engaged in the disciplines or you're not. But, here's what we don't want to engage in: disillusion. Hoping
without acting. Wishing without doing.
The key is to take a look and say, "Where am I? What could I do to make the changes to make sure
that I can take more certain daily steps toward the treasure I want, the mental treasure, the personal
treasure, the spiritual treasure, the financial treasure? I don't want to make any more errors, now's the
time to adjust my daily program to take me where I want to go."
In lecturing the last 39 years, I've gotten letters and personal testimonies of people that have
done such remarkable things with just a few suggestions. And that is why seminars, tapes and books can be so
valuable. Here's a key idea for us all to remember: We could all use a little coaching. When you're playing
the game, it's sometimes hard to see it all.
But the key is to start right now making these changes to walk this new road. And here's what's
exciting to me, just a few daily disciplines makes a great deal of difference in one year, three years, five
years. And before you know it, you will be walking a brand new road.
To Your Success,
Jim Rohn
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(excerpted from the Cultivating an Unshakable Character series)
Could creating your character be likened to an artist creating a sculpture? In my opinion, I
believe that character is not something that just happens by itself, any more than a chisel can create a work
of art without the hand of an artist guiding it. In both instances, a conscious decision for a specific
outcome has been made. A conscious process is at work. Character is the result of hundreds and hundreds of
choices you make that gradually turn who you are, at any given moment, into who you want to be. If that
decision-making process is not present, you will still be somebody. You will still be alive, but may have a
personality rather than a character.
Character is not something you were born with and can't change like your fingerprint. In fact,
because you weren't born with it, it is something that you must take responsibility for creating. I don't
believe that adversity by itself builds character and I certainly don't think that success erodes it.
Character is built by how you respond to what happens in your life. Whether it's winning every game or losing
every game. Getting rich or dealing with hard times. You build character out of certain qualities that you
must create and diligently nurture within yourself. Just like you would plant and water a seed or gather wood
and build a campfire. You've got to look for those things in your heart and in your gut. You've got to chisel
away in order to find them. Just like chiseling away the rock in order to create the sculpture that has
previously existed only in your imagination.
But do you want to know the really amazing thing about character? If you are sincerely committed
to making yourself into the person you want to be, you'll not only create those qualities, but you'll
continually strengthen them. And you will recreate them in abundance even as you are drawing on them every
day of your life. Just like the burning bush in the biblical book of Exodus, the bush burned but the flames
did not consume it. Character sustains itself and nurtures itself even as it is being put to work, tested,
and challenged. And once character is formed, it will serve as a solid, lasting foundation upon which to
build the life you desire.
To Your Success,
Jim Rohn
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It is a challenge to succeed. If it were not, Im sure more people would be successful, but for
every person who is enjoying the fruit from the tree of success, many more are examining the roots. They are
trying to figure it all out. They are mystified and perplexed by what seems to be some strange, complex and
elusive secret that must be found if ever success is to be enjoyed. While most people spend most of their
lives struggling to earn a living, a much smaller number seem to have everything going their way. Instead of
just earning a living, the smaller group is busily engaged in designing and enjoying a fortune. Everything
just seems to work out for them. While the much larger group sits in awe at how life can be so unfair,
complicated and unjust.
I am a nice person, the man says to himself. How come this other guy is happy and prosperous,
and Im always struggling? He asks himself, I am a good husband, a good father and a good worker. How come
nothing seems to work out for me? Life just isnt fair. Im even smarter and willing to work harder than some
of these other people who just seem to have everything going their way, he says as he slumps into the sofa to
watch another evening of television. But you see youve got to be more than a good person and a good worker.
Youve got to become a good planner, and a good dreamer. Youve got to see the future finished in advance.
Youve got to put in the long hours and put up with the setbacks and the disappointments. Youve got to learn
to enjoy the process of disciplines and of putting yourself through the paces of doing the uncomfortable
until it becomes comfortable. Youve got to be prepared and willing to attack the challenges if you want the
success because challenges are part of success. Now that may sound like a full menu of activities, but let me
assure you that the process of going from average to fortune isnt really all that difficult. Thinking about
it is the difficult part. Anticipating all the effort and the changes and the disciplines is far worse in the
mind than in reality. I can promise you that the challenges youll meet on the road to success are far less
difficult to deal with than the struggles and the disappointments that come from being average. Confronting
and overcoming challenges is an exhilarating experience. It does something to feed the soul and the mind. It
makes you more than you were before. It strengthens the mental muscles and enables you to become better
prepared for the next challenge.
I've often said that to have more, we must first become more, and to become more, we must begin
the process of working harder on ourselves than we do on anything else. But in addition to gathering new
knowledge, new skills and new experiences; it is also important to discover new emotions. It is how we feel
about what we know that makes the biggest difference in how our lives turn out. How we feel about the chances
we have and the choices we have determines the intensity of our effort. Whether we try or dont try. Join or
dont join. Believe or dont believe.
Id like for you to discover some strong feelings about your life and about what you want to do
with that life. You probably have much of the knowledge and a lot of the experience and perhaps most of the
skills that it takes to become successful. What you may be lacking in are the strong feelings about what you
want and what you want to do. You may be one of those who have become so involved in the process of earning a
living that youve forgotten about the choices and the chances you have for designing your own
life.
Let these strong feelings help you take a second look at your life and where youre headed. After
all, youve only got one life, at least on this planet. So why not make it an adventure in achievement? Why
not discover what all you can do and what all you can have? Why not discover how many others you can help and
in the process how that can help you?
Why not now take the Challenge to Succeed!
To Your Success,
Jim Rohn
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As you know by now, if you have been a long time subscriber to our weekly E-zine, I'm a very big
proponent of activity, labor and discipline. In fact I devoted one of the five major pieces to the life
puzzle (in my book under the same name) to the subject of activity and labor. But now let me add another key
word to the labor equation - skillful. Yes, skillful labor.
We need the skills to help build our family's dreams, the skills to stir up an enterprise and
make it successful. We need skills to build equities for the future. We need skills of all kinds.
How about this - skillful language. If you just talk to your family you can hold them all
together, but if you skillfully talk to your children you can help them build dreams for the future. That is
why I spend so much time at the Weekend Seminar on communication - how to affect others with words. You can't
be lazy in language - it costs too much. What if you meant to say "what's troubling you?" and instead you
said "what's wrong with you?". Wow, that's too big a mistake. And sure you could have made that mistake 10
years ago, but not now. You should have gotten much better by now in language and communication.
Skills multiply labor by two, by five, by ten, by fifty, by one hundred times. Hey, you can chop
a tree down with a hammer but it takes about 30 days, called labor. But if you trade the hammer in for an ax,
you can chop the tree down in about 30 minutes. What's the difference in 30 days and 30 minutes? Skills.
Skills made the difference.
So do what you can - labor. But also do the best that you can do improved skills. And you will
find that the labor combined with skills will start producing miracles. Miracles with your money, miracles
with your family and miracles in every part of your life.
To Your Success,
Jim Rohn
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Ten years ago I went into the studio and recorded a 56-minute video for teenagers called "Three
Keys To Greatness." Although my focus was for teenagers, the principles I shared certainly apply to adults as
well.
Recently I was asked to list these three things using one to two sentences for each. Now for
your benefit here they are again.
1) Setting Goals. I call it the view of the future. Most people, including kids, will pay the
price if they can see the promise of the future. So we need to help our kids see a well-defined future, so
they will be motivated to pay the price today to attain the rewards of tomorrow. Goals help them do
this.
2) Personal Development. Simply making consistent investments in our self-education and
knowledge banks pays major dividends throughout our lives. I suggest having a minimum amount of time set
aside for reading books, listening to audiocassettes, attending seminars, keeping a journal and spending time
with other successful people. Charlie Tremendous Jones says you will be in five years the sum total of the
books you read and the people you are around.
3) Financial Planning. I call it the 70/30 plan. After receiving your paycheck or paying
yourself, simply setting aside 10% for saving, 10% for investing and 10% for giving, and over time this will
guarantee financial independence for a teenager.
If a young person, or for that matter an adult, focused on doing these three simple things over
a long period of time I believe they will be assured success!
To Your Success,
Jim Rohn
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Engaging in genuine discipline requires that you develop the ability to take action. You don't
need to be hasty if it isn't required, but you don't want to lose much time either. Here's the time to act:
when the idea is hot and the emotion is strong.
Let's say you would like to build your library. If that is a strong desire for you, what you've
got to do is get the first book. Then get the second book. Take action as soon as possible, before the
feeling passes and before the idea dims. If you don't, here's what happens -
- You Fall Prey To The Law Of Diminishing Intent -
We intend to take action when the idea strikes us. We intend to do something when the emotion is
high. But if we don't translate that intention into action fairly soon, the urgency starts to diminish. A
month from now the passion is cold. A year from now it can't be found.
So take action. Set up a discipline when the emotions are high and the idea is strong, clear,
and powerful. If somebody talks about good health and you're motivated by it, you need to get a book on
nutrition. Get the book before the idea passes, before the emotion gets cold. Begin the process. Fall on the
floor and do some push-ups. You've got to take action; otherwise the wisdom is wasted. The emotion soon
passes unless you apply it to a disciplined activity. Discipline enables you to capture the emotion and the
wisdom and translate them into action. The key is to increase your motivation by quickly setting up the
disciplines. By doing so, you've started a whole new life process.
Here is the greatest value of discipline: self-worth, also known as self-esteem. Many people who
are teaching self-esteem these days don't connect it to discipline. But once we sense the least lack of
discipline within ourselves, it starts to erode our psyche. One of the greatest temptations is to just ease
up a little bit. Instead of doing your best, you allow yourself to do just a little less than your best. Sure
enough, you've started in the slightest way to decrease your sense of self-worth.
There is a problem with even a little bit of neglect. Neglect starts as an infection. If you
don't take care of it, it becomes a disease. And one neglect leads to another. Worst of all, when neglect
starts, it diminishes our self-worth.
Once this has happened, how can you regain your self-respect? All you have to do is act now!
Start with the smallest discipline that corresponds to your own philosophy. Make the commitment: "I will
discipline myself to achieve my goals so that in the years ahead I can celebrate my successes."
To Your Success,
Jim Rohn
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Adapted from the Jim Rohn Weekend Event - Excelling in the New Millennium
Persistence in your presentations, this is one secret to success. After my first presentation, I
got up and did it again. Even though I was scared to death, I did it again. And that second one wasnt too
good, but guess what. I did it again, and I did it again. And I worked up my courage, and I did it again. I
committed to it, and I did it again. And finally, it got to be a little bit easier. I got a little more
acquainted with the art of presenting. So have something good to say in your presentations. Preparation for
your presentations, this is another key aspect. Here are some words to help you in preparation.
To prepare to have something good to say, keep a keen interest in life and people. Dont let your
senses go dull here. Guess what most people are trying to do get THROUGH the day. Here is what I am asking
this unusual audience to do get FROM the day. Get from the day a clear picture of the drama of human life
some doing is right, some doing is wrong. Some gathering in; some throwing it away. Some building
reputations; some letting it all slide.
Get from the day what is happening in politics. Read the newspapers. Read the magazines. Find
out whats going on. Get from the periodicals. Get from whats happening. Get from your job. Get from your
career. Get from the people around you. What is happening in the community? Get from all of that. The
positive side, the negative side.
My parents used to say, Attend everything. Some things are so costly; they might be out of reach
for a while. Andrea Bocelli came to Beverly Hills. Guess what the tickets cost? $2500.00 for a two-hour
performance. That is pretty good pay. So some things might be out of reach, but whatever you can go to, get
to. Save up the money and go, so that you will be more aware of what is going on around you.
Keep up that interest in people. Why do they do what they do? How come things are happening
today that didnt happen thirty years ago?
Now the next word is fascination. Be fascinated with life and people and drama that is live and
in color every day. Cinemascope. Fascination goes a little bit beyond interest. Interested people want to
know does it work. Fascinated people want to know how does it work.
Kids have this unique ability to learn several languages in a six, seven-year period, and the
reason is because they are so fascinated. They are so interested. They are so curious. Kids have to know, and
that is how the drama of their learning takes on such speed in a fairly short period of time is because of
this unusual interest and fascination and curiosity. Were walking on ants, and kids are studying them. They
say, Dont walk on those ants. Im studying them. How come an ant can carry something bigger than they are?
That is a good question. They must be unbelievably strong if they can carry something bigger than they
are.
Here is something else Ive learned. To be fascinated instead of frustrated. It is just a little
trick to play. The next time youre tempted to be frustrated, see if you cant turn it into fascination.
Instead of a frown, it puts a smile on your face. Now sometimes you look a little weird, but so be it. He
says, How can he smile? I dont know. He must be somebody different.
Babe Ruth Home Run King back in those days of baseball used to strike out and come back to the
bench smiling. They used to say, Babe, you just struck out. How can you smile? Im just that much closer to my
next home run. Just stick around. It wont be long. One will be sailing over the fence. So find things
fascinating instead of frustrating. Just try it. Ive learned how to do it. Now make this note. It doesnt work
every time. Nothing works every time, but every time you can get it to work, guess what? It will benefit your
day. Youll get more from it. Youll be fascinated instead of frustrated.
Now Ive also learned the ultimate. Im fascinated by my own frustration. How come it doesnt take
me long to loose it on occasion? It must be from my fathers side. My mother was a gentle soul. Just find it
all fascinating. Ive talked to a lot of the Network Marketing companies over the years, and I give them that
little clue. Somebody joins and you think theyre going to stay forever, and they leave right away. You have
to say, Isnt that interesting? And someone you thought would never make it, sure enough they become
superstars. You have to say, Isnt that interesting? You say, I thought theyd stay forever, they dont stay.
Isnt that interesting. I didnt think theyd do anything, look what theyre doing. Isnt that
interesting?
So that is a good phrase. Find it interesting. Find it fascinating. Wow, I never thought that
would happen. I had another picture in mind. Wow! Was I ever wrong. And its good sometimes to be wrong on the
positive side. I didnt think it was going to work, and it worked. Say, What if somebody doesnt look at your
business opportunity? Say, What if they do? It doesnt take much to turn the question around. Say, What if
they wont join after they look? What if they do? What if they join and stay. But Ive got a better question,
What if they do stay? What if they quit after three months? I have a better question, What if they
stay?
So sometimes little tricks you can play to give yourself a different look because somebody could
either stay or leave and wouldnt it be better to assume that they would stay and then if they leave say, Isnt
that interesting? I have learned to do that with myself. Wow! Look what I did. Isnt that interesting? Wow! I
thought I was going to behave better. Wow! I lost it. Isnt that interesting? I thought for sure that wasnt
going to bother me. Sure enough. I thought I had a handle on this. Looks like Ive got some work to do. Find
yourself fascinating and interesting as you journey through life. Give yourself a chance.
Now here is the next word that is very important if you want to be a good communicator, and that
is sensitivity. Sensitive to someones drama and trouble and difficulty. As you contemplate your own, now you
can be sensitive to someone else. And there is no better way to be helpful than to do your best to try and
understand. Here is the old phrase weve heard it, lets jot it down this time. Learn to walk in someones shoes
for a while. Try to understand where they are. How come theyre in this dilemma? Maybe its something I dont
know. I dont understand. How come this person is losing his temper when he should keep it? Who knows what
might have happened the last three weeks. I dont know. Lets give somebody room by trying to
understand.
Be sensitive to someone lashing out and being difficult at the time. Hey! We can handle that. We
dont have to retaliate and fight back. Cant we say, Maybe theres a good reason this person behaves in this
way. That is an easier way. Sensitivity. Trying to understand. Trying to comprehend the full drama of human
experience. One of the greatest phrases in the Bible, Blessed are the peacemakers. Guess what a peacemaker
is? Someone that you hope is around when the conflict could be resolved. Someone who understands both sides
and brings them together. Say, I know youve got some animosity, but now that youve fought and that didnt
settle itcouldnt we get together and reason this whole thing out.
So in times of conflict, we look for a peacemaker. And the peacemaker has to understand both
sides of the issue. Say, I understand your dilemma, and I can see where youre coming from, and I can
understand why you said what you said then you said what you said. But hey! Isnt there a better way? Couldnt
we find a better way to settle it all? And that is what we are looking for.
Parents have to learn to be peacemakers when there are two sides to an issue and maybe neither
one is that far wrong. But to try to settle it, we have to understand both sides. We have to understand the
feelings on both sides, and that kind of sensitivity gives us a wonderful opportunity to grow, so that we can
communicate and our words will be meaningful. Then the test comes, and the drama comes and the time comes to
step up and speak or to sit down and speak or to be quiet and speak or to be loud and speak. Whatever that
might call for, well be prepared if we do have a genuine understanding. So preparation in all areas of life
is so vital to your success. Dont be lazy in preparing; dont be lazy in laying the groundwork that will make
all of the difference in how your life turns out.
To Your Success,
Jim Rohn
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Here's the great challenge of life - You can have more than you've got because you can become
more than you are.
I have found that income seldom will exceed your own personal development. Once in a while
income takes a lucky jump, but unless you grow out to where it is it will go back to where you are. Somebody
once said if you took all the money in the world and divided it among everyone equally, it would soon be back
in the same pockets. However, you can have more because you can become more. You see, here is how the other
side of the coin reads - unless you change how you are, you will always have what you've got. The marketing
plan won't do it. It's a good plan but it won't work without you. You've got to work it. It is the human
effort that counts. If you could send a sales manual out to recruit - wouldn't that be lovely? The major
thing that makes the difference is what YOU do.
In order to have more, you need to become more. The guy says "If I had a good job I would really
pour it on, but I have this lousy job so I just goof off." If that is your philosophy you are destined to
stay there. Some people say if I had a lot of money I would be really generous, but I don't have much so I'm
not generous. See, you've got to change that philosophy or you will never have "the lots of money". Unless
YOU change, IT won't change. Amazingly, however, when we throw out our blame list and start becoming more
ourselves - the difference is everything else will begin to change around us.
To Your Success,
Jim Rohn
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(Excerpted from the Jim Rohn Weekend Event - June 22 and 23, 2005)
Over the years as I've sought out ideas, principles and strategies to life's challenges, I've
come across four simple words that can make living worthwhile.
First, life is worthwhile if you Learn. What you don't know WILL hurt you. You have to have
learning to exist, let alone succeed. Life is worthwhile if you learn from your own experiences - negative or
positive. We learn to do it right by first sometimes doing it wrong. We call that a positive negative. We
also learn from other people's experiences, both positive and negative. I've always said that it is too bad
failures don't give seminars. Obviously, we don't want to pay them so they aren't usually touring around
giving seminars. But that information would be very valuable we would learn how someone who had it all then
messed it up. Learning from other people's experiences and mistakes is valuable information because we can
learn what not to do without the pain of having tried and failed ourselves.
We learn by what we see so pay attention. We learn by what we hear so be a good listener. Now I
do suggest that you should be a selective listener, don't just let anybody dump into your mental factory. We
learn from what we read so learn from every source; learn from lectures; learn from songs; learn from
sermons; learn from conversations with people who care. Always keep learning.
Second, life is worthwhile if you Try. You can't just learn; now you have to try something to
see if you can do it. Try to make a difference, try to make some progress, try to learn a new skill, try to
learn a new sport. It doesn't mean you can do everything, but there are a lot of things you can do, if you
just try. Try your best. Give it every effort. Why not go all out?
Third, life is worthwhile if you Stay. You have to stay from spring until harvest. If you have
signed up for the day or for the game or for the project - see it through. Sometimes calamity comes and then
it is worth wrapping it up. And that's the end, but just don't end in the middle. Maybe on the next project
you pass, but on this one, if you signed up, see it through.
And lastly, life is worthwhile if you Care. If you care at all you will get some results, if you
care enough you can get incredible results. Care enough to make a difference. Care enough to turn somebody
around. Care enough to start a new enterprise. Care enough to change it all. Care enough to be the highest
producer. Care enough to set some records. Care enough to win.
Four powerful little words: learn, try, stay and care. What difference can you make in your life
today by putting these words to work?
To Your Success,
Jim Rohn
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Somebody said you have to love what you do, but that's not necessarily true. What is true is
that you have to love the opportunity. The opportunity to build life, future, health, success and fortune.
Knocking on someone's door may not be something you love to do, but you love the opportunity of what might be
behind that door.
For example, a guy says, "I'm digging ditches. Should I love digging ditches?" The answer is,
"No, you don't have to love digging ditches, but if it is your first entry onto the ladder of success, you
say, 'I'm glad somebody gave me the opportunity to dig ditches and I'm going to do it so well, I won't be
here long.'"
You can be inspired by having found something; even though you are making mistakes in the
beginning and even though it is a little distasteful taking on a new discipline that you haven't learned
before. You don't have to love it, you just have to learn to appreciate America, appreciate opportunity and
appreciate the person who brought you the good news; that found you.
Appreciate the person who believed in you before you believed in yourself, appreciate the person
who said, "Hey, if I can do it, you can do it."
If you will embrace the disciplines associated with the new opportunity you will soon find that
your self-confidence starts to grow, that you go from being a skeptic to being a believer. And soon when you
go out person to person, talking to people, you will find it to be the most thrilling opportunity in the
world. Every person you meet - what could it be? Unlimited! Maybe a friend for life. The next person could be
an open door to retiring. The next person could be a colleague for years to come. It's big time stuff. And
sometimes in the beginning when we are just getting started we don't always see how big it is.
So, before you are tempted to give up or get discouraged, remember all success is based on long
term commitment, faith, discipline, attitude and a few stepping stones along the way. You might not like the
stone you are on right now, but it's sure to be one of the stones that lead to great opportunities in the
future.
To Your Success,
Jim Rohn
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My mentor, when I was 25 years old, dropped a phrase on me that changed my life forever when he
said, "profits are better than wages. Wages will make you a living, profits can make you a fortune." You know
it is a bit difficult to get rich on wages, but anybody can get rich on profits. Profits change your whole
attitude, even if you start part-time. Whether it's part-time on your entrepreneurial business, network
marketing company or service business.
It can be a landscape business in the summer or hanging Christmas lights in the winter. It can
be training, consulting or tutoring. It can be your hobby such as painting, writing, crafts, woodworking,
computers or cooking. But once you start investing even part time effort into your own business, you will
find how much more exciting it is to get up in the morning and go to work on your fortune, even if you're
only spending a few hours a week doing it.
How empowering it is to be able to go to work on your fortune every day rather than going to
work to pay the rent. Now - it is noble to go to work to pay the rent, but if you could also parcel out part
of your time - go to work to make your fortune. Your whole attitude changes; your spirit changes. It is in
your voice. It is in your face. It is in your gestures. And then you can say, "I am now working full-time on
my job and part-time on my fortune because I found a way to make profits." Wow!
Let the adventure begin
To Your Success,
Jim Rohn
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Emotions are the most powerful forces inside us. Under the power of emotions, human beings can
perform the most heroic (as well as barbaric) acts. To a great degree, civilization itself can be defined as
the intelligent channeling of human emotion. Emotions are fuel and the mind is the pilot, which together
propel the ship of civilized progress.
Which emotions cause people to act? There are four basic ones; each, or a combination of
several, can trigger the most incredible activity. The day that you allow these emotions to fuel your desire
is the day you'll turn your life around.
1) DISGUST
One does not usually equate the word "disgust" with positive action. And yet properly channeled,
disgust can change a person's life. The person who feels disgusted has reached a point of no return. He or
she is ready to throw down the gauntlet at life and say, "I've had it!" That's what I said after many
humiliating experiences at age 25, I said. "I don't want to live like this anymore. I've had it with being
broke. I've had it with being embarrassed, and I've had it with lying."
Yes, productive feelings of disgust come when a person says, "Enough is enough."
The "guy" has finally had it with mediocrity. He's had it with those awful sick feelings of
fear, pain and humiliation. He then decides he is not going to live like this anymore." Look out! This could
be the day that turns a life around. Call it what you will, the "I've had it" day, the "never again" day, the
"enough's enough" day. Whatever you call it, it's powerful! There is nothing so life-changing as
gut-wrenching disgust!
2) DECISION
Most of us need to be pushed to the wall to make decisions. And once we reach this point, we
have to deal with the conflicting emotions that come with making them. We have reached a fork in the road.
Now this fork can be a two-prong, three-prong, or even a four-prong fork. No wonder that decision-making can
create knots in stomachs, keep us awake in the middle of the night, or make us break out in a cold
sweat.
Making life-changing decisions can be likened to internal civil war. Conflicting armies of
emotions, each with its own arsenal of reasons, battle each other for supremacy of our minds. And our
resulting decisions, whether bold or timid, well thought out or impulsive, can either set the course of
action or blind it. I don't have much advice to give you about decision-making except this:
Whatever you do, don't camp at the fork in the road. Decide. It's far better to make a wrong
decision than to not make one at all. Each of us must confront our emotional turmoil and sort out our
feelings.
3) DESIRE
How does one gain desire? I don't think I can answer this directly because there are many ways.
But I do know two things about desire:
a. It comes from the inside not the outside.
b. It can be triggered by outside forces.
Almost anything can trigger desire. It's a matter of timing as much as preparation. It might be a song that tugs at
the heart. It might be a memorable sermon. It might be a movie, a conversation with a friend, a confrontation with
the enemy, or a bitter experience. Even a book or an article such as this one can trigger the inner mechanism that
will make some people say, "I want it now!"
Therefore, while searching for your "hot button" of pure, raw desire, welcome into your life
each positive experience. Don't erect a wall to protect you from experiencing life. The same wall that keeps
out your disappointment also keeps out the sunlight of enriching experiences. So let life touch you. The next
touch could be the one that turns your life around.
4) RESOLVE
Resolve says, "I will." These two words are among the most potent in the English language. I
WILL. Benjamin Disraeli, the great British statesman, once said, "Nothing can resist a human will that will
stake even its existence on the extent of its purpose." In other words, when someone resolves to "do or die,"
nothing can stop him.
The mountain climber says, "I will climb the mountain. They've told me it's too high, it's too
far, it's too steep, it's too rocky, it's too difficult. But it's my mountain. I will climb it. You'll soon
see me waving from the top or you'll never see me, because unless I reach the peak, I'm not coming back." Who
can argue with such resolve?
When confronted with such iron-will determination, I can see Time, Fate and Circumstance calling
a hasty conference and deciding, "We might as well let him have his dream. He's said he's going to get there
or die trying."
The best definition for "resolve" I've ever heard came from a schoolgirl in Foster City,
California. As is my custom, I was lecturing about success to a group of bright kids at a junior high school.
I asked, "Who can tell me what "resolve" means?" Several hands went up, and I did get some pretty good
definitions. But the last was the best. A shy girl from the back of the room got up and said with quiet
intensity, "I think resolve means promising yourself you will never give up." That's it! That's the best
definition I've ever heard: PROMISE YOURSELF YOU'LL NEVER GIVE UP.
Think about it! How long should a baby try to learn how to walk? How long would you give the
average baby before you say, "That's it, you've had your chance"? You say that's crazy? Of course it is. Any
mother would say, "My baby is going to keep trying until he learns how to walk!" No wonder everyone
walks.
There is a vital lesson in this. Ask yourself, "How long am I going to work to make my dreams
come true?" I suggest you answer, "As long as it takes." That's what these four emotions are all
about.
To Your Success,
Jim Rohn
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(excerpted from Leading an Inspired Life)
Pity the man who has a favorite restaurant, but not a favorite author. He's picked out a
favorite place to feed his body, but he doesn't have a favorite place to feed his mind!
Why would this be? Have you heard about the accelerated learning curve? From birth, up until the
time we are about eighteen, our learning curve is dramatic, and our capacity to learn during this period is
just staggering. We learn a tremendous amount very fast. We learn language, culture, history, science,
mathematics... everything!
For some people, the accelerated learning process will continue on. But for most, it levels off
when they get their first job. If there are no more exams to take, if there's no demand to get out paper and
pencil, why read any more books? Of course, you will learn some things through experience. Just getting out
there sometimes doing it wrong and sometimes doing it right - you will learn.
Can you imagine what would happen if you kept up an accelerated learning curve all the rest of
your life? Can you imagine what you could learn to do, the skills you could develop, the capacities you could
have? Here's what I'm asking you to do: be that unusual person who keeps up his learning curve and
develops an appetite for always trying to find good ideas.
One way to feed your mind and educate your philosophy is through the writings of influential
people. Maybe you can't meet the person, but you can read his or her books. Churchill is gone, but we still
have his books. Aristotle is gone, but we still have his ideas. Search libraries for books and programs.
Search magazines. Search documentaries. They are full of opportunities for intellectual feasting.
In addition to reading and listening, you also need a chance to do some talking and sharing. I
have some people in my life who help me with important life questions, who assist me in refining my own
philosophy, weighing my values and pondering questions about success and lifestyle.
We all need association with people of substance to provide influence concerning major issues
such as society, money, enterprise, family, government, love, friendship, culture, taste, opportunity, and
community. Philosophy is mostly influenced by ideas, ideas are mostly influenced by education, and education
is mostly influenced by the people with whom we associate.
One of the great fortunes of my life was to be around Mr. Shoaff those five years. During that
time he shared with me at dinner, during airline flights, at business conferences, in private conversations
and in groups. He gave me many ideas that enabled me to make small daily adjustments in my philosophy and
activities. Those daily changes, some very slight, but very important, soon added up to weighty
sums.
A big part of the lesson was having Mr. Shoaff repeat the ideas over and over. You just can't
hear the fundamentals of life philosophy too often. They are the greatest form of nutrition, the building
blocks for a well-developed mind.
I'm asking that you feed your mind just as you do your body. Feed it with good ideas, wherever
they can be found. Always be on the lookout for a good idea - a business idea, a product idea, a service
idea, an idea for personal improvement. Every new idea will help to refine your philosophy. Your philosophy
will guide your life, and your life will unfold with distinction and pleasure.
To Your Success,
Jim Rohn
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(Excepted from the book The Five Major Pieces to the Life Puzzle by Jim Rohn)
Failure is not a single, cataclysmic event. We do not fail overnight. Failure is the inevitable
result of an accumulation of poor thinking and poor choices. To put it more simply, failure is nothing more
than a few errors in judgment repeated every day.
Now why would someone make an error in judgment and then be so foolish as to repeat it every
day? The answer is because he or she does not think that it matters.
On their own, our daily acts do not seem that important. A minor oversight, a poor decision, or
a wasted hour generally doesn't result in an instant and measurable impact. More often than not, we escape
from any immediate consequences of our deeds.
If we have not bothered to read a single book in the past ninety days, this lack of discipline
does not seem to have any immediate impact on our lives. And since nothing drastic happened to us after the
first ninety days, we repeat this error in judgment for another ninety days, and on and on it goes. Why?
Because it doesn't seem to matter. And herein lies the great danger. Far worse than not reading the books is
not even realizing that it matters!
Those who eat too many of the wrong foods are contributing to a future health problem, but the
joy of the moment overshadows the consequence of the future. It does not seem to matter. Those who smoke too
much or drink too much go on making these poor choices year after year after year... because it doesn't seem
to matter. But the pain and regret of these errors in judgment have only been delayed for a future time.
Consequences are seldom instant; instead, they accumulate until the inevitable day of reckoning finally
arrives and the price must be paid for our poor choices - choices that didn't seem to matter.
Failure's most dangerous attribute is its subtlety. In the short term those little errors don't
seem to make any difference. We do not seem to be failing. In fact, sometimes these accumulated errors in
judgment occur throughout a period of great joy and prosperity in our lives. Since nothing terrible happens
to us, since there are no instant consequences to capture our attention, we simply drift from one day to the
next, repeating the errors, thinking the wrong thoughts, listening to the wrong voices and making the wrong
choices. The sky did not fall in on us yesterday; therefore the act was probably harmless. Since it seemed to
have no measurable consequence, it is probably safe to repeat.
But we must become better educated than that!
If at the end of the day when we made our first error in judgment the sky had fallen in on us,
we undoubtedly would have taken immediate steps to ensure that the act would never be repeated again. Like
the child who places his hand on a hot burner despite his parents' warnings, we would have had an
instantaneous experience accompanying our error in judgment.
Unfortunately, failure does not shout out its warnings as our parents once did. This is why it
is imperative to refine our philosophy in order to be able to make better choices. With a powerful, personal
philosophy guiding our every step, we become more aware of our errors in judgment and more aware that each
error really does matter.
Now here is the great news. Just like the formula for failure, the formula for success is easy
to follow: It's a few simple disciplines practiced every day.
Now here is an interesting question worth pondering: How can we change the errors in the formula
for failure into the disciplines required in the formula for success? The answer is by making the future an
important part of our current philosophy.
Both success and failure involve future consequences, namely the inevitable rewards or
unavoidable regrets resulting from past activities. If this is true, why don't more people take time to
ponder the future? The answer is simple: They are so caught up in the current moment that it doesn't seem to
matter. The problems and the rewards of today are so absorbing to some human beings that they never pause
long enough to think about tomorrow.
But what if we did develop a new discipline to take just a few minutes every day to look a
little further down the road? We would then be able to foresee the impending consequences of our current
conduct. Armed with that valuable information, we would be able to take the necessary action to change our
errors into new success-oriented disciplines. In other words, by disciplining ourselves to see the future in
advance, we would be able to change our thinking, amend our errors and develop new habits to replace the
old.
One of the exciting things about the formula for success - a few simple disciplines practiced
every day - is that the results are almost immediate. As we voluntarily change daily errors into daily
disciplines, we experience positive results in a very short period of time. When we change our diet, our
health improves noticeably in just a few weeks. When we start exercising, we feel a new vitality almost
immediately. When we begin reading, we experience a growing awareness and a new level of self-confidence.
Whatever new discipline we begin to practice daily will produce exciting results that will drive us to become
even better at developing new disciplines.
The real magic of new disciplines is that they will cause us to amend our thinking. If we were
to start today to read the books, keep a journal, attend the classes, listen more and observe more, then
today would be the first day of a new life leading to a better future. If we were to start today to try
harder, and in every way make a conscious and consistent effort to change subtle and deadly errors into
constructive and rewarding disciplines, we would never again settle for a life of existence - not once we
have tasted the fruits of a life of substance!
To Your Success,
Jim Rohn
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Each of us has two distinct choices to make about what we will do with our lives. The first
choice we can make is to be less than we have the capacity to be. To earn less. To have less. To read less
and think less. To try less and discipline ourselves less. These are the choices that lead to an empty life.
These are the choices that, once made, lead to a life of constant apprehension instead of a life of wondrous
anticipation.
And the second choice? To do it all! To become all that we can possibly be. To read every book
that we possibly can. To earn as much as we possibly can. To give and share as much as we possibly can. To
strive and produce and accomplish as much as we possibly can. All of us have the choice. To do or not to do.
To be or not to be. To be all or to be less or to be nothing at all.
Like the tree, it would be a worthy challenge for us all to stretch upward and outward to the
full measure of our capabilities. Why not do all that we can, every moment that we can, the best that we can,
for as long as we can?
Our ultimate life objective should be to create as much as our talent and ability and desire
will permit. To settle for doing less than we could do is to fail in this worthiest of
undertakings.
Results are the best measurement of human progress. Not conversation. Not explanation. Not
justification. Results! And if our results are less than our potential suggests that they should be, then we
must strive to become more today than we were the day before. The greatest rewards are always reserved for
those who bring great value to themselves and the world around them as a result of who and what they have
become.
To Your Success,
Jim Rohn
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(excerpts from "How to Keep a Journal" audio series by Jim Rohn)
If you're serious about becoming a wealthy, powerful, sophisticated, healthy, influential,
cultured and unique individual, keep a journal. Don't trust your memory. When you listen to something
valuable, write it down. When you come across something important, write it down.
I used to take notes on pieces of paper and torn-off corners and backs of old envelopes. I wrote
ideas on restaurant placemats. On long sheets, narrow sheets and little sheets and pieces of paper
thrown in a drawer. Then I found out that the best way to organize those ideas is to keep a journal. I've
been keeping these journals since the age of twenty-five. The discipline makes up a valuable part of my
learning, and the journals are a valuable part of my library.
I am a buyer of blank books. Kids find it interesting that I would buy a blank book. They say,
"Twenty-six dollars for a blank book! Why would you pay that?" The reason I pay twenty-six dollars is to
challenge myself to find something worth twenty-six dollars to put in there. All my journals are private, but
if you ever got a hold of one of them, you wouldn't have to look very far to discover it is worth more than
twenty-six dollars.
I must admit, if you got a glimpse of my journals, you'd have to say that I am a serious
student. I'm not just committed to my craft, I'm committed to life, committed to learning new concepts and
skills. I want to see what I can do with seed, soil, sunshine and rain to turn them into the building blocks
of a productive life.
Keeping a journal is so important. I call it one of the three treasures to leave behind for the
next generation. In fact, future generations will find these three treasures far more valuable than your
furniture.
The first treasure is your pictures. Take a lot of pictures. Don't be lazy in capturing the
event. How long does it take to capture the event? A fraction of a second. How long does it take to miss the
event? A fraction of a second. So don't miss the pictures. When you're gone, they'll keep the memories
alive.
The second treasure is your library. This is the library that taught you, that instructed you,
that helped you defend your ideals. It helped you develop a philosophy. It helped you become wealthy,
powerful, healthy, sophisticated, and unique. It may have helped you conquer some disease. It may have helped
you conquer poverty. It may have caused you to walk away from the ghetto. Your library, the books that
instructed you, fed your mind and fed your soul, is one of the greatest gifts you can leave
behind.
The third treasure is your journals: the ideas that you picked up, the information that you
meticulously gathered. But of the three, journal writing is one of the greatest indications that you're a
serious student. Taking pictures, that is pretty easy. Buying a book at a bookstore, that's pretty easy. It
is a little more challenging to be a student of your own life, your own future, your own destiny. Take the
time to keep notes and to keep a journal. You'll be so glad you did. What a treasure to leave behind when you
go. What a treasure to enjoy today!
To Your Success,
Jim Rohn
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Here's the great challenge of life - You can have more than you've got because you can become
more than you are.
I have found that income seldom will exceed your own personal development. Once in a while
income takes a lucky jump, but unless you grow out to where it is it will go back to where you are. Somebody
once said if you took all the money in the world and divided it among everyone equally, it would soon be back
in the same pockets. However, you can have more because you can become more. You see, here is how the other
side of the coin reads - unless you change how you are, you will always have what you've got. The marketing
plan won't do it. It's a good plan but it won't work without you. You've got to work it. It is the human
effort that counts. If you could send a sales manual out to recruit - wouldn't that be lovely? The major
thing that makes the difference is what YOU do.
In order to have more, you need to become more. The guy says "If I had a good job I would really
pour it on, but I have this lousy job so I just goof off." If that is your philosophy you are destined to
stay there. Some people say if I had a lot of money I would be really generous, but I don't have much so I'm
not generous. See, you've got to change that philosophy or you will never have "the lots of money". Unless
YOU change, IT won't change. Amazingly, however, when we throw out our blame list and start becoming more
ourselves - the difference is everything else will begin to change around us.
To Your Success,
Jim Rohn
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Engaging in genuine discipline requires that you develop the ability to take action. You don't
need to be hasty if it isn't required, but you don't want to lose much time either. Here's the time to act:
when the idea is hot and the emotion is strong.
Let's say you would like to build your library. If that is a strong desire for you, what you've
got to do is get the first book. Then get the second book. Take action as soon as possible, before the
feeling passes and before the idea dims. If you don't, here's what happens -
- You Fall Prey to the Law of Diminishing Intent -
We intend to take action when the idea strikes us. We intend to do something when the emotion is
high. But if we don't translate that intention into action fairly soon, the urgency starts to diminish. A
month from now the passion is cold. A year from now it can't be found.
So take action. Set up a discipline when the emotions are high and the idea is strong, clear,
and powerful. If somebody talks about good health and you're motivated by it, you need to get a book on
nutrition. Get the book before the idea passes, before the emotion gets cold. Begin the process. Fall on the
floor and do some push-ups. You've got to take action; otherwise the wisdom is wasted. The emotion soon
passes unless you apply it to a disciplined activity. Discipline enables you to capture the emotion and the
wisdom and translate them into action. The key is to increase your motivation by quickly setting up the
disciplines. By doing so, you've started a whole new life process.
Here is the greatest value of discipline: self-worth, also known as self-esteem. Many people who
are teaching self-esteem these days don't connect it to discipline. But once we sense the least lack of
discipline within ourselves, it starts to erode our psyche. One of the greatest temptations is to just ease
up a little bit. Instead of doing your best, you allow yourself to do just a little less than your best. Sure
enough, you've started in the slightest way to decrease your sense of self-worth.
There is a problem with even a little bit of neglect. Neglect starts as an infection. If you
don't take care of it, it becomes a disease. And one neglect leads to another. Worst of all, when neglect
starts, it diminishes our self-worth.
Once this has happened, how can you regain your self-respect? All you have to do is act now!
Start with the smallest discipline that corresponds to your own philosophy. Make the commitment: "I will
discipline myself to achieve my goals so that in the years ahead I can celebrate my successes."
To Your Success,
Jim Rohn
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(excerpted from the New Jim Rohn Weekend Event DVD/CD series)
Over the years I've learned to challenge my audiences to turn their response to the ideas and
information they receive into results. According to the Biblical story, the first couple, Adam and Eve, was
instructed to be fruitful - produce some results. Fruitful is kind of an interesting word; it denotes
abundance. Here's what I think fruitful, abundance and productivity mean - to go to work on producing more
than you need for yourself. I think we fulfill that command given to us so long ago to be productive, to
produce far more than we need for ourselves, by blessing others, blessing our nation and blessing our
enterprise.
Challenge yourself to produce more ideas than you need for yourself so you can share and give
your ideas away. Produce more in terms of substance and money and treasure and all things valuable to human
beings, far more than you need for yourself. I am reminded of R.G. LeTourneau's story, the man who built the
big earth moving machines; it was his goal to someday give away 90% of his income. Giving away far more than
anyone could possibly imagine. 90% is an awful lot to give away, but you should have seen the 10% that was
left. Once abundance starts to come, once someone becomes incredibly productive, it's amazing what the
numbers turn out to be. It's amazing what it finally totals. So make sure when you are given the opportunity,
that you turn your response into results, thus the chance to be more fruitful and more giving.
To Your Success,
Jim Rohn
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An enterprising person is one who comes across a pile of scrap metal and sees the making of a
wonderful sculpture. An enterprising person is one who drives through an old decrepit part of town and sees a
new housing development. An enterprising person is one who sees opportunity in all areas of life.
To be enterprising is to keep your eyes open and your mind active. It's to be skilled enough,
confident enough, creative enough and disciplined enough to seize opportunities that present
themselves...regardless of the economy.
A person with an enterprising attitude says, "Find out what you can before action is taken." Do
your homework. Do the research. Be prepared. Be resourceful. Do all you can in preparation of what's to
come.
Enterprising people always see the future in the present. Enterprising people always find a way
to take advantage of a situation, not be burdened by it. And enterprising people aren't lazy. They don't wait
for opportunities to come to them, they go after the opportunities. Enterprise means always finding a way to
keep yourself actively working toward your ambition.
Enterprise is two things. The first is creativity. You need creativity to see what's out there
and to shape it to your advantage. You need creativity to look at the world a little differently. You
need creativity to take a different approach, to be different.
What goes hand-in-hand with the creativity of enterprise is the second requirement: the courage
to be creative. You need courage to see things differently, courage to go against the crowd, courage to take
a different approach, courage to stand alone if you have to, courage to choose activity over
inactivity.
And lastly, being enterprising doesn't just relate to the ability to make money. Being
enterprising also means feeling good enough about yourself, having enough self worth to want to seek
advantages and opportunities that will make a difference in your future. And by doing so you will increase
your confidence, your courage, your creativity and your self-worth your enterprising nature.
To Your Success,
Jim Rohn
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Someone once said to me that success isn't everything and I think I know what they really meant.
I believe they really meant that money wasn't everything and I certainly agree with that. But I do believe
that success IS everything.
First you need to succeed to survive. We must take the seasons and learn how to use them with
the seed, the soil and the rain of opportunity to learn how to sustain ourselves and our family. But then
second is to then succeed to flourish in every part of your life. Good question to ask mature people "If you
could do better should you?" And I thing almost everybody would answer the question in the positive. If you
could improve your health shouldn't you do that? If you can learn more shouldn't you do that? If you could
earn more and share more, shouldn't you do that? If you can improve your relationships and spirituality
shouldn't you do that? And I think that is what success is really all about. It is not just a destination
that is set for everybody to try and go for. It is like Zig said, "improving in every area of your life to
see if you can't with satisfaction at the end of the day, week, month and year and say 'I have made excellent
progress this year, for myself, for my family, for my business, my career and my health.'". I think that kind
of success everybody recognizes is legitimate and something we should all strive for.
Interesting phrase in the bible that says strive for perfection - not that we can ever reach it.
But it is in the striving, to be a little bit better today than yesterday, in our speech, our language, our
health, everything we can possibility think of.
So yes, in my opinion it is good to succeed!
To Your Success,
Jim Rohn
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(Excerpted from the Jim Rohn Sampler single audio/CD)
My first mentor, Mr. Shoaff, over a five-year period of time before he died at age 49, taught me
some extraordinarily simple things. He only went through the 9th grade in school. He never finished high
school, never went to college, never went to a university. So he put his experiences and ideas in very simple
language, which, I think for me - kid from the farms of Idaho - was so important. When I would say, "This is
all the company pays." Mr. Shoaff would say, "No, that is all they pay YOU." I thought, "That is a new to
look at it." I told him things cost too much. But he said, "No, you can't afford them." Well, that was a new
concept for me. He promised that if I would improve, then I would qualify for more money. So I learned that
we don't have to work on the company, we have to work on ourselves.
If it had been technical, I would have missed it. If it had been mystic, I would have backed
away. But it was just basic, blunt "a-b-c" familiar stuff that I hadn't thought of before. For me it was the
beginning of what he called "personal development".
Mr. Shoaff also taught me that life puts some of the more valuable things on the high shelf so
that you can't get to them until you qualify. If you want the things on the high shelf, you must stand on the
books you read. With every book you read, you get to stand a little higher.
And the "biggie" that forever had an impact on me, "Success is something you attract by the
person you become." That phrase changed my life. Success is not to be pursued, but to be attracted by the
person you become. Put your energy into becoming a better you, the best you. Learn the skills. Practice the
skills. Attract the success.
These simple strategies and ideas helped change my life, forever, for the better. Thank you,
once again, Mr. Shoaff.
To Your Success,
Jim Rohn
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(excerpted from the New Jim Rohn Weekend Event DVD/CD series)
Is thankfulness a survival skill? Perhaps most of you would respond with, "No, Jim, thankfulness
is not key to survival", and I would tend to agree with you. Most of us have probably already solved the
necessary problems of survival, gone beyond that and are now working to achieve our desires. But let me give
you this key phrase, "Learn to be thankful for what you already have, while you pursue all that you want." I
believe one of the greatest and perhaps one of the simplest lessons in life we can learn is to be thankful
for what we have already received and accomplished.
Both the years and the experiences have brought me here to where I stand today, but it is the
thankfulness that opened the windows of opportunities, of blessings, of unique experiences to flow my way. My
gratitude starts with my parents who raised me, gave me an incredible foundation that has lasted me all of
these years and continues with the mentors that I've met along the way who absolutely changed and
revolutionized my life, my income, my bank account, my future. I am also very thankful for the people, the
associations, for the ideas, for the chance to work and labor, and to produce results, all of that has
brought me to this place, to this weekend. I'm grateful for it all.
What a unique opportunity each one of you here has, so many of us; representing different
countries, nations and cultures, to appreciate the uniqueness of our own experiences that has brought us all
here, together, for these three days to learn new skills and sharpen old ones. For the countries we
represent; we have freedom and liberty. These are extraordinary times, about eleven years ago the walls came
tumbling down, in Germany, and it started a wave of democracy and freedom like the world has never seen
before. We as a country and as a world have so much to be thankful for. Always start with thanksgiving; be
thankful for what you already have and see the miracles that come from this one simple act.
Now thankfulness is just the beginning; next, you've got to challenge yourself to produce.
Produce more ideas than you need for yourself so you can share and give your ideas away. That is called
fruitfulness and abundance. Here's what I think fruitfulness and abundance mean - to go to work on producing
more than you need for yourself so you can begin blessing others, blessing your nation and blessing your
enterprise. Once abundance starts to come, once someone becomes incredibly productive, it's amazing what the
numbers turn out to be. But to begin this incredible process of blessing, it often starts with the act of
thanksgiving and gratitude, being thankful for what you already have and for what you've already done. Begin
the act of thanksgiving today and watch the miracles flow your way.
To Your Success,
Jim Rohn
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I'm often asked the question, "How can I best help my children, spouse, family member, staff
member, friend etc. improve/change?" In fact that might be the most frequently asked question I receive, "How
can I help change someone else?"
My answer often comes as a surprise and here it is. The key to helping others is to help
yourself first. In other words, the best contribution I can make to someone else is my own personal
development. If I become 10 times wiser, 10 times stronger, think of what that will do for my adventure as a
father... as a grandfather... as a business colleague.
The best gift I can give to you, really, is my ongoing personal development. Getting better,
getting stronger, becoming wiser. I think parents should pick this valuable philosophy up. If the parents are
okay, the kids have an excellent chance of being okay. Work on your personal development as parents; that's
the best gift you can give to your children.
If you have ever ridden in an airplane, then you might have noticed the oxygen compartment
located above every seat. There are explicit instructions that say "In case of an emergency, first secure
your own oxygen mask and then if you have children with you then secure their masks." Take care of yourself
first... then assist your children. If we use that same philosophy throughout our whole parental life, it
would be so valuable.
If I learn to create happiness for myself, my children now have an excellent chance to be happy.
If I create a unique lifestyle for myself and my spouse, that will be a great example to serve my
children.
Self-development enables you to serve, to be more valuable to those around you; for your
child... your business... your colleague... your community... your church.
That's why I teach development skills. If you keep refining all the parts of your character,
yourself, your health, etc. so that you become an attractive person to the marketplace - you'll attract
opportunity. Opportunity will then begin to seek you out. Your reputation will begin to precede you and
people will want to do business with you. All of that possibility is created by working on the philosophy
that success is something you attract by continually working on your own personal development.
To Your Success,
Jim Rohn
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I have found that sometimes the subtle difference in our attitude, which of course can make a
major difference in our future, can be as simple as the language we use. The difference in even how you talk
to yourself or others. Consciously making a decision to quit saying what you don't want and to start saying
what you do want. I call that faith. Believing the best, hoping for the best and moving toward the
best.
A few examples could be, instead of saying "What if somebody doesn't respond" you start saying,
"What if they do respond?" Instead of saying "What if someone says no?" You say, "What if they say
yes?" Instead of "What if they start and quit?" say, "What if they start and stay?" or "What if it doesn't
work out?" You say, "What if it does work out?" and the list goes on and on.
I found that when you start thinking and saying what you really want then your mind
automatically shifts and pulls you in that direction. And sometimes it can be that simple, just a little
twist in vocabulary that illustrates your attitude and philosophy.
Our language can also affect how others perform and behave around us. A teenager says to a
parent, "I need $10." And if the parents learn to say, "No comprende. That kind of language doesn't work
here. We've got plenty of money, but that's not how you get $10." Then you teach your teenager how to ask,
"How can I earn $10?"
That is the magic of words. There is plenty of money here. There is money for everybody, but you
just have to learn the magic words to get them. For everything you could possibly want. If you just learn the
philosophy. How could I earn $10? Because you can't go to the soil and say, "Give me a harvest." You
know the soil smiles and says, "Who is this clown that brings me his need and brings me no seed." And if you
said to the soil, "I've got this seed and if I planted it, would you work while I sleep?" And the soil says,
"No problem. Give me the seed. Go to sleep and I'll be working while you're sleeping."
If you just understand these simple principles, teaching them to a teenager (or adult) is
sometimes just a matter of language. It's like an investment account instead of a savings account. Simple
language, but so important. It is easy to stumble through almost a lifetime and not learn some of these
simplicities. Then you have to put up with all the lack and all the challenges that don't work out
simply from not reading the book, not listening to the tape, not sitting in the class, not studying your
language and not being willing to search so you can then find.
But here is the great news. You can start this process anytime. For me it was at age 25.
At 25 I'm broke. Six years later I'm a millionaire. Somebody says, "What kind of revolution, what kind of
change, what kind of thinking, what kind of magic had to happen? Was it you?" And I say, "No. Any person, any
six years, 36 to 42, 50 to 56. Whatever six years; whatever few years you go on an intensive, accelerated
personal development curve, learning curve, application curve, and learning the disciplines. Now, it
might not take the same amount of time, but I'm telling you the same changes and the same rewards in some
different fashion are available for those who pay that six year price. And you might find that whether
it's in the beginning to help get you started, or in the middle to keep you on track, that your language can
have a great impact on your attitude, actions and results.
To Your Success,
Jim Rohn
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When starting any enterprise or business, whether it is full-time or part-time, we all know the
value of having plenty of capital (money). But I bet we both know or at least have heard of people who
started with no capital who went on to make fortunes. How? You may ask.
Well, I believe there are actually some things that are more valuable than capital that can lead
to your entrepreneurial success. Let me give you the list.
1. Time.
Time is more valuable than capital. The time you set aside not to be wasted, not to be given
away. Time you set aside to invest in an enterprise that brings value to the marketplace with the hope of
making a profit. Now we have capital time.
How valuable is time? Time properly invested is worth a fortune. Time wasted can be devastation.
Time invested can perform miracles, so you invest your time.
2. Desperation.
I have a friend Lydia, whose first major investment in her new enterprise was desperation. She
said, "My kids are hungry, I gotta make this work. If this doesn't work, what will I do?" So she invested $1
in her enterprise selling a product she believed in. The $1 was to buy a few fliers so she could make a sale
at retail, collect the money and then buy the product wholesale to deliver back to the customer.
My friend Bill Bailey went to Chicago as a teenager after he got out of high school. And the
first job he got was as a night janitor. Someone said, "Bill, why would you settle for night janitor?" He
said, "Malnutrition." You work at whatever you can possibly get when you get hungry. You go to work somewhere
-- night janitor, it doesn't matter where it is. Years later, now Bill is a recipient of the Horatio Alger
award, rich and powerful and one of the great examples of lifestyle that I know. But, his first job -- night
janitor. Desperation can be a powerful incentive. When you say - I must.
3. Determination.
Determination says I will. First Lydia said, "I must find a customer." Desperation. Second, she
said, "I will find someone before this first day is over." Sure enough, she found someone. She said, "If it
works once, it will work again." But then the next person said, "No." Now what must you invest?
4. Courage.
Courage is more valuable than capital. If you've only got $1 and a lot of courage, I'm telling
you, you've got a good future ahead of you. Courage in spite of the circumstances. Humans can do the most
incredible things no matter what happens. Haven't we heard the stories? There are some recent ones from
Kosovo that are some of the most classic, unbelievable stories of being in the depths of hell and finally
making it out. It's humans. You can't sell humans short. Courage in spite of, not because of, but in spite
of. Now once Lydia has made 3 or 4 sales and gotten going, here's what now takes over.
5. Ambition.
"Wow! If I can sell 3, I can sell 33. If I can sell 33, I can sell 103." Wow. Lydia is now
dazzled by her own dreams of the future.
6. Faith.
Now she begins to believe she's got a good product. This is probably a good company. And she
then starts to believe in herself. Lydia, single mother, 2 kids, no job. "My gosh, I'm going to pull it off!"
Her self-esteem starts to soar. These are investments that are unmatched. Money can't touch it. What if you
had a million dollars and no faith? You'd be poor. You wouldn't be rich. Now here is the next one, the reason
why she's a millionaire today.
7. Ingenuity.
Putting your brains to work. Probably up until now, you've put about 1/10 of your brainpower to
work. What if you employed the other 9/10? You can't believe what can happen. Humans can come up with the
most intriguing things to do. Ingenuity. What's ingenuity worth? A fortune. It is more valuable than money.
All you need is a $1 and plenty of ingenuity. Figuring out a way to make it work, make it work, make it
work.
8. Heart and Soul.
What is a substitute for heart and soul? It's not money. Money can't buy heart and soul. Heart
and soul is more valuable than a million dollars. A million dollars without heart and soul, you have no life.
You are ineffective. But, heart and soul is like the unseen magic that moves people, moves people to buy,
moves people to make decisions, moves people to act, moves people to respond.
9. Personality.
You've just got to spruce up and sharpen up your own personality. You've got plenty of
personality. Just get it developed to where it is effective every day, it's effective no matter who you talk
to - whether it is a child or whether it is a business person - whether it is a rich person or a poor person.
A unique personality that is at home anywhere. One of my mentors, Bill Bailey, taught me, "You've got to
learn to be just as comfortable, Mr. Rohn, whether it is in a little shack in Kentucky having a beer and
watching the fights with Winfred, my old friend or in a Georgian mansion in Washington, DC as the Senator's
guest." Move with ease whether it is with the rich or whether it is with the poor. And it makes no difference
to you who is rich or who is poor. A chance to have a unique relationship with whomever. The kind of
personality that's comfortable. The kind of personality that's not bent out of shape.
And lastly, let's not forget charisma and sophistication. Charisma with a touch of humility.
This entire list is more valuable than money. With one dollar and the list I just gave you, the world is
yours. It belongs to you, whatever piece of it you desire whatever development you wish for your life. I've
given you the secret. Capital. The kind of capital that is more valuable than money and that can secure your
future and fortune. Remember that you lack not the resources.
To Your Success,
Jim Rohn
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(excerpted from The Challenge to Succeed series)
Two thousand years ago on April 15th one of Jesus' disciples came to him and said it was time to
pay taxes (that's how I know it was around April 15th), but they had no money. In response to his disciple's
statement Jesus said "no problem". Now why could he say "no problem"? Well, word had it that Jesus was a
miracle worker. If you hand a problem to a miracle worker what they are inclined to say is "no problem".
You've got to hang out with people like that.
I belong to a small group and we do business around the world. These guys are all miracle
workers. What an incredible group. If you hand any of them a problem guess what they say, "no problem". How
many books will they read to solve a problem? As many as it takes. If they need to consult - how much
consulting will they do? As much as it takes. How early will they get up? As early as it takes. "No
problem"... you got to hang out with people like that. You cannot believe the thrill of being associated with
miracle workers, people who will do whatever it takes to get the job done and perform miracles.
When asked about paying the taxes Jesus said it was "no problem". In fact, he said it was going
to be easy - he told the disciple to just go fishing. Now it couldn't have been any easier than that,
especially for this disciple whose name was Peter, because Peter was a fisherman. Now if you can fish and you
should fish and you don't fish - then that is why you do not get a miracle. But Jesus told his disciple to go
fishing and the first fish that he caught to look in its mouth. Peter, who was used to strange things
happening, agreed. Well, the first fish Peter catches, he looks in its mouth and finds coins. Peter then adds
up the coins and they are exactly enough to pay his and Jesus' taxes.
"Wow!", you might say, "That is a miracle!" Here is why we call it a miracle - simply because we
don't quite understand how it works. That's all. Doesn't mean it doesn't work, it just means we don't quite
understand how it works. Which is true of all miracles. In fact, for most of us - our whole life is a
miracle.
How about this miracle... God says if you plant the seed I will make the tree. Wow, you can't
have a better arrangement than that. First, it gives God the tough end of the deal. What if you had to make a
tree? That would keep you up late at night trying to figure out how to make a tree. God says, "No, leave the
miracle part to me. I've got the seed, the soil, the sunshine, the rain and the seasons. I'm God and all this
miracles stuff is easy for me. I have reserved something very special for you and that is to plant the
seed."
I have found in life that if you want a miracle you first need to do whatever it is you can do -
if that's to plant, then plant; if it is to read, then read; if it is to change, then change; if it is to
study, then study; if it is to work, then work; whatever you have to do. And then you will be well on your
way of doing the labor that works miracles.
To Your Success,
Jim Rohn
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All of the books that we will ever need to make us as rich, as healthy, as happy, as powerful,
as sophisticated and as successful as we want to be have already been written.
People from all walks of life, people with some of the most incredible life experiences, people
that have gone from pennies to fortune and from failure to success have taken the time to write down their
experiences so that we might share in their wealth of knowledge. They have offered their wisdom and
experience so that we can be inspired by it and instructed by it, and so that we can amend our philosophy by
it. Their contributions enable us to reset our sail based upon their experiences. They have handed us the
gift of their insights so that we can change our plans, if need be, in order to avoid their errors. We can
rearrange our lives based on their wise advice.
All of the insights that we might ever need have already been captured by others in books. The
important question is this: In the last ninety days, with this treasure of information that could change our
lives, our fortunes, our relationships, our health, our children and our careers for the better, how many
books have we read?
Why do we neglect to read the books that can change our lives? Why do we complain but remain the
same? Why do so many of us curse the effect but nourish the cause? How do we explain the fact that only a
small percent of our entire national population possesses and utilize a library card - a card that would give
us access to all of the answers to success and happiness we could ever want? Those who wish for the better
life cannot permit themselves to miss the books that could have a major impact on how their lives turn out.
The book they miss will not help!
And the issue is not that books are too expensive! If a person concludes that the price of
buying the book is too great, wait until he must pay the price for not buying it. Wait until he receives the
bill for continued and prolonged ignorance.
There is very little difference between someone who cannot read and someone who will not read.
The result of either is ignorance. Those who are serious seekers of personal development must remove the
self-imposed limitations they have placed on their reading skills and their reading habits. There is a
multitude of classes being taught on how to be a good reader and there are thousands of books on the shelves
of the public libraries just waiting to be read. Reading is essential for those who seek to rise above the
ordinary. We must not permit anything to stand between us and the book that could change our
lives.
A little reading each day will result in a wealth of valuable information in a very short period
of time. But if we fail to set aside the time, if we fail to pick up the book, if we fail to exercise the
discipline, then ignorance will quickly move in to fill the void.
Those who seek a better life must first become a better person. They must continually seek after
self-mastery for the purpose of developing a balanced philosophy of life, and then live in accordance with
the dictates of that philosophy. The habit of reading is a major stepping-stone in the development of a sound
philosophical foundation. And in my opinion it is one of the fundamentals required for the attainment of
success and happiness.
To Your Success,
Jim Rohn
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Once you've set a goal for yourself as a leader - whether it is to create your own enterprise,
energize your organization, build a church, excel in sports, etc. - the challenge is to find good people to
help you accomplish that goal. Gathering a successful team of people is not only helpful, it's
necessary.
So to guide you in this daunting task of picking the right people, I'm going to share with you a
four-part checklist.
Number One: Check each candidate's history. Seek out available information regarding the
individual's qualifications to do the job. That's the most obvious step.
Number Two: Check the person's interest level. If they are interested, they are probably a good
prospect. Sometimes people can fake their interest, but if you've been a leader for a while, you will be a
capable judge of whether somebody is merely pretending. Arrange face-to-face conversation, and try to gauge
his or her sincerity to the best of your ability. You won't hit the bull's-eye every time, but you can get
pretty good at spotting what I call true interest.
Number Three: Check the prospect's responses. A response tells you a lot about someone's
integrity, character, and skills. Listen for responses like these: "You want me to get there that early?"
"You want me to stay that late?" "The break is only ten minutes?" "I'll have to work two evenings a week and
Saturdays?" You can't ignore these clues. A person's responses are a good indication of his or her character
and of how hard he or she will work. Our attitudes reflect our inner selves, so even if we can fool others
for a while, eventually, our true selves will emerge.
And Number Four: Check results. The name of the game is results. How else can we effectively
judge an individual's performance? The final judge must be results.
There are two types of results to look for. The first is activity results. Specific results are
a reflection of an individual's productivity. Sometimes we don't ask for this type of result right away, but
it's pretty easy to check activity. If you work for a sales organization and you've asked your new salesman,
John, to make ten calls in the first week, it's simple to check his results on Friday. You say, "John, how
many calls did you make?" John says, "Well . . ." and starts telling a story, making an excuse. You respond,
"John, I just need a number from one to ten." If his results that first week are not good, it is a definite
sign. You might try another week, but if that lack of precise activity continues, you'll soon realize that
John isn't capable of becoming a member of your team.
The second area you need to monitor is productivity. The ultimate test of a quality team is
measurable progress in a reasonable amount of time. And here's one of the skills of leadership: be up front
with your team as to what you expect them to produce. Don't let the surprises come later.
When you're following this four-part checklist, your instincts obviously play a major role. And
your instincts will improve every time you go through the process. Remember, building a good team will be one
of your most challenging tasks as a leader. It will reap you multiple rewards for a long time to
come.
To Your Success,
Jim Rohn
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We are not born with courage, but neither are we born with fear. Maybe some of our fears are
brought on by our own experiences, by what someone has told us, by what we've read in the papers. Some fears
are valid, like walking alone in a bad part of town at two o'clock in the morning. But once we learn to avoid
that situation, we won't need to live in fear of it.
Fears, even the most basic ones, can totally destroy our ambitions. Fear can destroy fortunes.
Fear can destroy relationships. Fear, if left unchecked, can destroy our lives. Fear is one of the many
enemies lurking inside us.
Let me tell you about five of the other enemies we face from within. The first enemy that we've
got to destroy before it destroys us is indifference. What a tragic disease this is. The man says, "Ho-hum,
let it slide. I'll just drift along." But here's one problem with drifting: we can't drift our way to the top
of the mountain.
The second enemy we face is indecision. Indecision is the thief of opportunity and enterprise.
It will steal our chances for a better future. Take a sword to this enemy.
The third enemy inside is doubt. Sure, there's room for healthy skepticism. We can't believe
everything. But we also can't let doubt take over. Many people doubt the past, doubt the future, doubt each
other, doubt the government, doubt the possibilities and doubt the opportunities. Worse of all, they doubt
themselves. I'm telling you, doubt will destroy your life and your chances of success. It will empty both
your bank account and your heart. Doubt is an enemy. Go after it. Get rid of it.
The fourth enemy within is worry. We've all got to worry some. Just don't let it conquer you.
Instead, let it alarm you. Worry can be useful. If you step off the curb in New York City and a taxi is
coming, you've got to worry. But you can't let worry loose like a mad dog that drives you into a small
corner. Here's what you've got to do with your worries: drive them into a small corner. Whatever is out to
get you, you've got to get it. Whatever is pushing on you, you've got to push back.
The fifth interior enemy is over-caution. It is the timid approach to life. Timidity is not a
virtue (unlike humility - they are different); in fact, it can be an illness. If you let it go, it'll conquer
you. Timid people don't get promoted. They don't advance and grow and become powerful in the marketplace.
You've got to avoid over-caution.
Do battle with the enemy. Do battle with your fears. Build your courage to fight what's holding
you back, what's keeping you from your goals and dreams. Be courageous in your life and in your pursuit of
the things you want and the person you want to become.
To Your Success,
Jim Rohn
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Parents, leaders, employers, teachers and volunteers have you discovered one of the great
positive mysteries of life? Here it is - All life seems to wish to reward its benefactor.
If you become the benefactor, you will receive these incredible rewards. If you are the
benefactor to the garden, the flowers seem to bloom and say, "Look at me. Look how bright and beautiful
I am because you took care of me. I wish to reward you by being beautiful, lovely,
spectacular."
Your own children, if you become their benefactor, they want to reward you with their progress.
I taught my daughters how to swim. And my daughters would say, as they were about to dive, "'Daddy, daddy
watch, watch, look, look, watch" as if to say; 'look what you have created here, you've spent the time with
me and now look at me. This is the payoff.' Watch me dive." I was their
benefactor.
I have found that all life wishes to respond to the benefactor. The ones who give their time,
give their effort, give their patience, give their ideas, the benefit of their experience. Whatever has
benefited from that, wishes to respond. The crop wishes to grow. The child wishes to show you how much
progress they've made.
And remember that whatever you move towards tends to move towards you. Just as when you move
toward education, and education starts to seek you out. Or when you move toward progress and progress seems
to want to now embrace you. You will find that, just as predictably, as you move towards helping those
in your care they will wish to repay you with their own success and accomplishments.
To Your Success,
Jim Rohn
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Any day we wish; we can discipline ourselves to change it all. Any day we wish; we can open the
book that will open our mind to new knowledge. Any day we wish; we can start a new activity. Any day we
wish; we can start the process of life change. We can do it immediately, or next week, or next month, or next
year.
We can also do nothing. We can pretend rather than perform. And if the idea of having to change
ourselves makes us uncomfortable, we can remain as we are. We can choose rest over labor, entertainment over
education, delusion over truth, and doubt over confidence. The choices are ours to make. But while we curse
the effect, we continue to nourish the cause. As Shakespeare uniquely observed, "The fault is not in the
stars, but in ourselves." We created our circumstances by our past choices. We have both the ability and the
responsibility to make better choices beginning today. Those who are in search of the good life do not need
more answers or more time to think things over to reach better conclusions. They need the truth. They need
the whole truth. And they need nothing but the truth.
We cannot allow our errors in judgment, repeated every day, to lead us down the wrong path. We
must keep coming back to those basics that make the biggest difference in how our life works out. And then we
must make the very choices that will bring life, happiness and joy into our daily lives.
And if I may be so bold to offer my last piece of advice for someone seeking and needing to make
changes in their life - If you don't like how things are, change it! You're not a tree. You have the ability
to totally transform every area in your life - and it all begins with your very own power of
choice.
To Your Success,
Jim Rohn
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As we enter into this New Year we all tend to have a heightened sense of the opportunities and
possibilities that 2003 can bring. The need for goal-setting becomes more obvious and clear. And the great
thing about goal-setting is you can keep it as simple or get as elaborate as you would like. In fact,
we have spent the last month in the One-Year Success Plan solely on the subject of goal-setting and have
dedicated over 125 pages in the One-Year Plan to exercises on the subject. Space and time won't allow that
here, but below are some abbreviated points on goal-setting for the New Year.
I've often said the major reason for setting a goal is for what it makes of you to accomplish
it. What it makes of you will always be the far greater value than what you get. That is why goals are so
powerful - they are part of the fabric that makes up our lives. And goal-setting is where we create our
goals.
Goal-setting is powerful, partly because it provides focus. It shapes our dreams. It gives us
the ability to hone in on the exact actions we need to perform to achieve everything we desire in life. Goals
are GREAT because they cause us to stretch and grow in ways that we never have before. In order to reach our
goals we must become better. We must change and grow.
Also, goals provide long-term vision in our lives. We all need lots of powerful, long-range
goals to help us get past short-term obstacles. Life is designed in such a way that we look long-term and
live short-term. We dream for the future and live in the present. Unfortunately, the present can produce many
difficult obstacles. But fortunately, the more powerful our goals (because they are inspiring and believable)
the more we will be able to act on them in the short-term and guarantee that they will actually come to
pass!
So, lets take a closer look at the topic of goal-setting and see how we can make it forceful as
well as practical. What are the key aspects to learn and remember when studying and writing our
goals?
1. Evaluation and Reflection. The only way we can reasonably decide what we want in the future
and how we will get there is to first know where we are right now and what our level of satisfaction is for
where we are in life. So first take some time and think through and write down your current situation, then
ask this question on each key point - is that okay?
The purpose of evaluation is twofold. First, it gives you an objective way to look at your
accomplishments and your pursuit of the vision you have for your life. Secondly, it is to show you where you
are so you can determine where you need to go. In other words, it gives you a baseline from which to
work.
I would strongly encourage you to take a couple of hours this week to evaluate and reflect. At
the beginning of this month we encourage you to see where you are and write it down so that as the months
progress and you continue a regular time of evaluation and reflection, you will see just how much ground you
will be gaining and that will be exciting!
2. What are Your Dreams and Goals? These are the dreams and goals that are born out of your own
heart and mind. These are the goals that are unique to you and come from who you were created to be and
gifted to become. So second, make a list of all the things you desire for the future.
One of the amazing things we have been given as humans is the unquenchable desire to have dreams
of a better life, and the ability to establish goals to live out those dreams. Think of it: We can look deep
within our hearts and dream of a better situation for ourselves and our families; dream of better financial
lives and better emotional or physical lives; certainly dream of better spiritual lives. But what makes this
even more powerful is that we have also been given the ability to not only dream but to pursue those dreams
and not just pursue them, but the cognitive ability to actually lay out a plan and strategies (setting goals)
to achieve those dreams. Powerful!
What are your dreams and goals? This isnt what you already have or what you have done, but what
you want. Have you ever really sat down and thought through your life values and decided what you really
want? Have you ever taken the time to truly reflect, to listen quietly to your heart, to see what dreams live
within you? Your dreams are there. Everyone has them. They may live right on the surface, or they may be
buried deep from years of others telling you they were foolish, but they are there.
So how do we know what our dreams are? This is an interesting process and it relates primarily
to the art of listening. This is not listening to others; it is listening to yourself. If we listen to
others, we hear their plans and dreams (and many will try to put their plans and dreams on us). If we listen
to others, we can never be fulfilled. We will only chase elusive dreams that are not rooted deep within us.
No, we must listen to our own hearts.
Here are some practical steps/thoughts on hearing from our hearts on what our dreams
are:
Take time to be quiet. This is something that we dont do enough in this busy world of ours. We
rush, rush, rush, and we are constantly listening to noise all around us. The human heart was meant for times
of quiet, to peer deep within. It is when we do this that our hearts are set free to soar and take flight on
the wings of our own dreams! Schedule some quiet dream time this week. No other people. No cell phone. No
computer. Just you, a pad, a pen, and your thoughts.
Think about what really thrills you. When you are quiet, think about those things that really
get your blood moving. What would you LOVE to do, either for fun or for a living? What would you love to
accomplish? What would you try if you were guaranteed to succeed? What big thoughts move your heart into a
state of excitement and joy? When you answer these questions you will feel GREAT and you will be in the dream
zone. It is only when we get to this point that we experience what OUR dreams are!
Write down all of your dreams as you have them. Dont think of any as too outlandish or foolish
remember, youre dreaming! Let the thoughts fly and take careful record.
Now, prioritize those dreams. Which are most important? Which are most feasible? Which would you
love to do the most? Put them in the order in which you will actually try to attain them. Remember, we are
always moving toward action, not just dreaming.
3. S.M.A.R.T. Goals. S.M.A.R.T. means Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Realistic, and
Time-sensitive.
I really like this acronym S.M.A.R.T., because we want to be smart when we set our goals. We
want to intelligently decide what our goals will be so that we can actually accomplish them. We want to set
the goals that our heart conceives, our minds believe and that our bodies will carry out. Lets take a closer
look at each of the components of S.M.A.R.T. goals:
Specific: Goals are no place to waffle. They are no place to be vague. Ambiguous goals produce
ambiguous results. Incomplete goals produce incomplete futures.
Measurable: Always set goals that are measurable. I would say specifically measurable to take
into account our principle of being specific as well.
Attainable: One of the detrimental things that many people do and they do it with good
intentions is to set goals that are so high they are unattainable.
Realistic: The root word of realistic is real. A goal has to be something that we can reasonably
make real or a reality in our lives. There are some goals that simply are not realistic. You have to be able
to say, even if it is a tremendously stretching goal, that yes, indeed, it is entirely realistic -- that you
could make it. You may even have to say that it will take x, y, and z to do it, but if those happen, then it
can be done. This is in no way to say it shouldnt be a big goal, but it must be realistic.
Time: Every goal should have a timeframe attached to it. I think that life itself is much more
productive if there is a timeframe connected to it. Could you imagine how much procrastination there would be
on earth if people never died? We would never get around to it. We could always put it off. One of the
powerful aspects of a great goal is that it has an end, a time in which you are shooting to accomplish it.
You start working on it because you know there is an end. As time goes by you work on it because you dont
want to get behind. As it approaches, you work diligently because you want to meet the deadline. You may even
have to break down a big goal into different parts of measurement and time frames. That is okay. Set smaller
goals and work them out in their own time. A S.M.A.R.T. goal has a timeline.
4. Accountability (A contract with yourself or someone else). When someone knows what your goals
are, they hold you accountable by asking you to give an account of where you are in the process of achieving
that goal. Accountability puts some teeth into the process. If a goal is set and only one person knows it,
does it really have any power? Many times, no. At the very least, it isnt as powerful as if you have one or
more other people who can hold you accountable to your goal.
So: Evaluate/Reflect; Decide What You Want; Be S.M.A.R.T.; Have Accountability. When you put
these 4 key pieces together, you are putting yourself in a position of power that will catapult you toward
achieving your goals.
Let's Do Something Remarkable in 2003!
Jim Rohn
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No matter how busy you are, try and find some time over the next week to reflect, think, give
and plan.
The week between Christmas and New Year's is the ideal time for this. Try and slow things
down. Spend time with the ones you love and care about. Take some time to talk with your spouse
and kids about goals and dreams for the year 2005. Use this as a time to recharge your batteries, not
just by watching TV the entire time, but to seriously and with excitement think about a handful of changes or
additions you want for your life in 2003.
I believe you will find the act of reflecting, thinking, dreaming and planning (with your
family) to be one of the most important exercises you can do that will positively impact the next 12
months.
And remember, do not neglect to commit yourself to set this time aside or you will find that the
business of life can and will get in the way.
So let's all take a moment to gather up the past year of victories and defeats, growing as well
as those times of stagnation and use it to wipe a clean slate and thoughtfully design the next year the way
we truly desire it to be.
To Your Success and a Prosperous 2003,
Jim Rohn
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Remember the master teacher once said 2000 years ago, "Unless you can become like little
children, your chances are zero, you haven't got a prayer." A major consideration for adults.
Be like children and remember there are four ways to be more like a child no matter how old you
get -
1) Curiosity - Be curious. Childish curiosity. Learn to be curious like a child. What will kids
do if they want to know something bad enough? You're right. They will bug you. Kids can ask a million
questions. You think they're through. They've got another million. They will keep plaguing you. They can
drive you right to the brink.
Also kids use their curiosity to learn. Have you ever noticed that while adults are stepping on
ants, children are studying them? A child's curiosity is what helps them to reach, learn and grow.
2) Excitement - Learn to get excited like a child. There is nothing that has more magic than
childish excitement. So excited you hate to go to bed at night. Can't wait to get up in the morning. So
excited that you're about to explode. How can anyone resist that kind of childish magic? Now, once in awhile
I meet someone who says, "Well, I'm a little too mature for all that childish excitement." Isn't that
pitiful? You've got to weep for these kinds of people. All I've got to say is, "If you're too old to get
excited, you're old." Don't get that old.
3) Faith - Faith like a child. Faith is childish. How else would you describe it? Some people
say, "Let's be adult about it." Oh no. No. Adults too often have a tendency to be overly skeptical. Some
adults even have a tendency to be cynical. Adults say, "Yeah. I've heard that old positive line before.
It will be a long day in June before I fall for that positive line. You've got to prove to me it's any good."
See, that's adult, but kids aren't that way. Kids think you can get anything. They are really funny. You tell
kids, "We're going to have three swimming pools." And they say, "Yeah. Three. One each. Stay out of my
swimming pool." See, they start dividing them up right away, but adults are not like that. Adults say, "Three
swimming pools? You're out of your mind. Most people don't even have one swimming pool. You'll be lucky to
get a tub in the back yard." You notice the difference? No wonder the master teacher said, "Unless you can
become like little children, your chances, they're skinny."
4) Trust - Trust is a childish virtue, but it has great merit. Have you heard the expression
"sleep like a baby"? That's it. Childish trust. After you've gotten an A+ for the day, leave it in somebody
else's hands.
Curiosity, excitement, faith and trust. Wow, what a powerful combination to bring (back) into
our lives.
To Your Success,
Jim Rohn
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If you want to be a leader who attracts quality people, the key is to become a person of quality
yourself. Leadership is the ability to attract someone to the gifts, skills, and opportunities you offer as
an owner, as a manger, as a parent. I call leadership the great challenge of life.
What's important in leadership is refining your skills. All great leaders keep working on
themselves until they become effective. Here are some specifics:
1) Learn to be strong but not rude. It is an extra step you must take to become a powerful,
capable leader with a wide range of reach. Some people mistake rudeness for strength. It's not
even a good substitute.
2) Learn to be kind but not weak. We must not mistake kindness for weakness. Kindness isn't
weak. Kindness is a certain type of strength. We must be kind enough to tell somebody the truth. We
must be kind enough and considerate enough to lay it on the line. We must be kind enough to tell it like it
is and not deal in delusion.
3) Learn to be bold but not a bully. It takes boldness to win the day. To build your
influence, you've got to walk in front of your group. You've got to be willing to take the first arrow,
tackle the first problem, discover the first sign of trouble.
4) You've got to learn to be humble, but not timid. You can't get to the high life by being
timid. Some people mistake timidity for humility. Humility is almost a God-like word. A sense of awe.
A sense of wonder. An awareness of the human soul and spirit. An understanding that there
is something unique about the human drama versus the rest of life. Humility is a grasp of the distance
between us and the stars, yet having the feeling that we're part of the stars. So humility is a virtue;
but timidity is a disease. Timidity is an affliction. It can be cured, but it is a
problem.
5) Be proud but not arrogant. It takes pride to win the day. It takes pride to build your
ambition. It takes pride in community. It takes pride in cause, in accomplishment. But the key to
becoming a good leader is being proud without being arrogant. In fact I believe the worst kind of
arrogance is arrogance from ignorance. It's when you don't know that you don't know. Now that
kind of arrogance is intolerable. If someone is smart and arrogant, we can tolerate that. But if
someone is ignorant and arrogant, that's just too much to take.
6) Develop humor without folly. That's important for a leader. In leadership, we learn
that it's okay to be witty, but not silly. It's okay to be fun, but not foolish.
Lastly, deal in realities. Deal in truth. Save yourself the agony. Just accept life like
it is. Life is unique. Some people call it tragic, but I'd like to think it's unique. The
whole drama of life is unique. It's fascinating. And I've found that the skills that work well
for one leader may not work at all for another. But the fundamental skills of leadership can be adapted to
work well for just about everyone: at work, in the community, and at home.
To Your Success,
Jim Rohn
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Someone recently asked me the question: "How can I have more opportunities come into my life?"
Good question, but I think my answer surprised them a bit.
I bypassed the obvious (and necessary) points about hard work, persistence and preparation.
They actually were very hard workers. And they had the great attribute of being seekers, they
were on the outlook. But I felt maybe they were missing this next and most valuable point -
attraction.
I always thought opportunities and success were something you went after, then I found out that
I needed to turn it around. Opportunities and success are not something you go after necessarily, but
something you attract - by becoming an attractive person.
Thats why I teach development of skills. If you can develop your skills, keep refining all the
parts of your character and yourself, your health, your relationships, etc. so that you become an attractive
person to the marketplace - youll attract opportunity. Opportunity will probably seek you out. Your
reputation will probably precede you and someone will want to do business with you. All of the possibilities
are there by working on the philosophy that success is something you attract.
The key is to continue making yourself a more attractive person by the skills you have, the
disciplines you have, the personality youve acquired, the character and reputation you have established, the
language and speech you use - all of that refinement makes you more attractive to the marketplace.
Personal development - the never ending chance to improve not only yourself, but also to attract
opportunities and affect others.
To Your Success,
Jim Rohn
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Engaging in genuine discipline requires that you develop the ability to take action. You don't
need to be hasty if it isn't required, but you don't want to lose much time either. Here's the time to act:
when the idea is hot and the emotion is strong.
Let's say you would like to build your library. If that is a strong desire for you, what you've
got to do is get the first book. Then get the second book. Take action as soon as possible, before the
feeling passes and before the idea dims. If you don't, here's what happens -
- YOU FALL PREY TO THE LAW OF DIMINISHING INTENT -
We intend to take action when the idea strikes us. We intend to do something when the emotion is
high. But if we don't translate that intention into action fairly soon, the urgency starts to diminish. A
month from now the passion is cold. A year from now it can't be found.
So take action. Set up a discipline when the emotions are high and the idea is strong, clear,
and powerful. If somebody talks about good health and you're motivated by it, you need to get a book on
nutrition. Get the book before the idea passes, before the emotion gets cold. Begin the process. Fall on the
floor and do some push-ups. You've got to take action; otherwise the wisdom is wasted. The emotion soon
passes unless you apply it to a disciplined activity. Discipline enables you to capture the emotion and the
wisdom and translate them into action. The key is to increase your motivation by quickly setting up the
disciplines. By doing so, you've started a whole new life process.
Here is the greatest value of discipline: self-worth, also known as self-esteem. Many people who
are teaching self-esteem these days don't connect it to discipline. But once we sense the least lack of
discipline within ourselves, it starts to erode our psyche. One of the greatest temptations is to just ease
up a little bit. Instead of doing your best, you allow yourself to do just a little less than your
best. Sure enough, you've started in the slightest way to decrease your sense of self-worth.
There is a problem with even a little bit of neglect. Neglect starts as an infection. If you
don't take care of it, it becomes a disease. And one neglect leads to another. Worst of all, when neglect
starts, it diminishes our self-worth.
Once this has happened, how can you regain your self-respect? All you have to do is act now!
Start with the smallest discipline that corresponds to your own philosophy. Make the commitment: "I will
discipline myself to achieve my goals so that in the years ahead I can celebrate my successes."
To Your Success,
Jim Rohn
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An enterprising person is one who comes across a pile of scrap metal and sees the making of a
wonderful sculpture. An enterprising person is one who drives through an old decrepit part of town and sees a
new housing development. An enterprising person is one who sees opportunity in all areas of life.
To be enterprising is to keep your eyes open and your mind active. It's to be skilled
enough, confident enough, creative enough and disciplined enough to seize opportunities that present
themselves... regardless of the economy.
A person with an enterprising attitude says, "Find out what you can before action is taken." Do
your homework. Do the research. Be prepared. Be resourceful. Do all you can in preparation of what's to
come.
Enterprising people always see the future in the present. Enterprising people always find
a way to take advantage of a situation, not be burdened by it. And enterprising people aren't lazy.
They don't wait for opportunities to come to them, they go after the opportunities. Enterprise
means always finding a way to keep yourself actively working toward your ambition.
Enterprise is two things. The first is creativity. You need creativity to see what's out
there and to shape it to your advantage. You need creativity to look at the world a little differently.
You need creativity to take a different approach, to be different.
What goes hand-in-hand with the creativity of enterprise is the second requirement: the courage
to be creative. You need courage to see things differently, courage to go against the crowd, courage to take
a different approach, courage to stand alone if you have to, courage to choose activity over
inactivity.
And lastly, being enterprising doesn't just relate to the ability to make money. Being
enterprising also means feeling good enough about yourself, having enough self worth to want to seek
advantages and opportunities that will make a difference in your future. And by doing so you will increase
your confidence, your courage, your creativity and your self-worth - your enterprising nature.
To Your Success,
Jim Rohn
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Eight years ago I went into the studio and recorded a 56-minute video for teenagers called
"Three Keys To Greatness." Although my focus was for teenagers, the principles I shared certainly apply
to adults as well.
Recently I was asked to list these three things using one to two sentences for each. Now
for your benefit here they are again.
1) Setting Goals. I call it the view of the future. Most people, including kids, will pay the
price if they can see the promise of the future. So we need to help our kids see a well-defined future, so
they will be motivated to pay the price today to attain the rewards of tomorrow. Goals help them do
this.
2) Personal Development. Simply making consistent investments in our self-education and
knowledge banks pays major dividends throughout our lives. I suggest having a minimum amount of time set
aside for reading books, listening to audiocassettes, attending seminars, keeping a journal and spending time
with other successful people. Charlie Tremendous Jones says you will be in five years the sum total of the
books you read and the people you are around.
3) Financial Planning. I call it the 70/30 plan. After receiving your paycheck or paying
yourself, simply setting aside 10% for saving, 10% for investing and 10% for giving, and over time this will
guarantee financial independence for a teenager.
If a young person, or for that matter an adult, focused on doing these three simple things over
a long period of time I believe they will be assured success!
To Your Success,
Jim Rohn
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I have found that sometimes the subtle difference in our attitude, which of course can make a
major difference in our future, can be as simple as the language we use. The difference in even how you talk
to yourself or others. Consciously making a decision to quit saying what you don't want and to start
saying what you do want. I call that faith. Believing the best, hoping for the best and moving toward
the best.
A few examples could be, instead of saying, "What if somebody doesn't respond" you start saying,
"What if they do respond?" Instead of saying, "What if someone says no?" You say, "What if they say yes?"
Instead of "What if they start and quit?" say, "What if they start and stay?" or "What if it doesn't work
out?" You say, "What if it does work out?" and the list goes on and on.
I found that when you start thinking and saying what you really want then your mind
automatically shifts and pulls you in that direction. And sometimes it can be that simple, just a little
twist in vocabulary that illustrates your attitude and philosophy.
Our language can also affect how others perform and behave around us. A teenager says to a
parent, "I need $10." And if the parents learn to say, "No comprende. That kind of language doesn't work
here. We've got plenty of money, but that's not how you get $10." Then you teach your teenager how to ask,
"How can I earn $10?"
That is the magic of words. There is plenty of money here. There is money for everybody, but you
just have to learn the magic words to get it. For everything you could possibly want. If you just learn the
philosophy. How could I earn $10? Because you can't go to the soil and say, "Give me a harvest." You
know the soil smiles and says, "Who is this clown that brings me his need and brings me no seed." And if you
said to the soil, "I've got this seed and if I planted it, would you work while I sleep?" And the soil says,
"No problem. Give me the seed. Go to sleep and I'll be working while you're sleeping."
If you just understand these simple principles, teaching them to a teenager (or adult) is
sometimes just a matter of language. It's like an investment account instead of a savings account. Simple
language, but so important. It is easy to stumble through almost a lifetime and not learn some of these
simplicities. Then you have to put up with all the lack and all the challenges that don't work out
simply from not reading the book, not listening to the tape, not sitting in the class, not studying your
language and not being willing to search so you can then find.
But here is the great news. You can start this process anytime. For me it was at age 25.
At 25 I'm broke. Six years later I'm a millionaire. Somebody says, "What kind of revolution, what kind of
change, what kind of thinking, what kind of magic had to happen? Was it you?" And I say, "No. Any person, any
six years, 36 to 42, 50 to 56. Whatever six years; whatever few years you go on an intensive, accelerated
personal development curve, learning curve, application curve, and learning the disciplines. Now, it
might not take the same amount of time, but I'm telling you the same changes and the same rewards in some
different fashion are available for those who pay that six year price. And you might find that whether
it's in the beginning to help get you started, or in the middle to keep you on track, that your language can
have a great impact on your attitude, actions and results.
To Your Success,
Jim Rohn
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People often ask me how I became successful in that six-year period of time while many of the
people I knew did not. The answer is simple: The things I found to be easy to do, they found to
be easy not to do. I found it easy to set the goals that could change my life. They found it easy
not to. I found it easy to read the books that could affect my thinking and my ideas. They found
that easy not to. I found it easy to attend the classes and the seminars, and to get around other
successful people. They said it probably really wouldn't matter. If I had to sum it up, I would
say what I found to be easy to do, they found to be easy not to do. Six years later, I'm a millionaire
and they are all still blaming the economy, the government and company policies, yet they neglected to do the
basic, easy things.
In fact, the primary reason most people are not doing as well as they could and should, can be
summed up in a single word: neglect.
It is not the lack of money - banks are full of money. It is not the lack of opportunity -
America, and much of the free World, continues to offer the most unprecedented and abundant opportunities in
the last six thousand years of recorded history. It is not the lack of books libraries are full of
books - and they are free! It is not the schools - the classrooms are full of good teachers. We
have plenty of ministers, leaders, counselors and advisors.
Everything we would ever need to become rich and powerful and sophisticated is within our
reach. The major reason that so few take advantage of all that we have is simply, neglect.
Neglect is like an infection. Left unchecked it will spread throughout our entire system
of disciplines and eventually lead to a complete breakdown of a potentially joy-filled and prosperous human
life.
Not doing the things we know we should do causes us to feel guilty and guilt leads to an erosion
of self-confidence. As our self-confidence diminishes, so does the level of our activity. And as
our activity diminishes, our results inevitably decline. And as our results suffer, our attitude begins
to weaken. And as our attitude begins the slow shift from positive to negative, our self-confidence
diminishes even more ... and on and on it goes.
So my suggestion is that when giving the choice of "easy to" and "easy not to" that you do not
neglect to do the simple, basic, "easy"; but potentially life-changing activities and disciplines.
To Your Success,
Jim Rohn
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1) First, life is worthwhile if you LEARN. What you don't know WILL hurt you. You have to have
learning to exist, let alone succeed. Life is worthwhile if you learn from your own experiences, negative and
positive. We learn to do it right by first sometimes doing it wrong. We call that a positive negative. We
also learn from other people's experiences, both positive and negative. I've always said it is too bad
failures don't give seminars. We don't want to pay them so they don't tour around giving seminars. But the
information would be very valuable how someone who had it all, messed it up. Learning from other people's
experiences and mistakes.
We learn by what we see - pay attention. By what we hear be a good listener. Now I do suggest
being a selective listener, don't just let anybody dump into your mental factory. We learn from what we read.
Learn from every source. Learn from lectures, learn from songs, learn from sermons, learn from conversations
with people who care. Keep learning.
2) Life is worthwhile if you TRY. You can't just learn; you now have to try something to see if
you can do it. Try to make a difference, try to make some progress, try to learn a new skill, try to learn a
new sport. Life is worthwhile if you try. It doesn't mean you can do everything but there are a lot of things
you can do, if you just try. Try your best. Give it every effort. Why not go all out?
3) Life is worthwhile if you STAY. You have to stay from spring until harvest. If you have
signed up for the day or for the game or for the project - see it through. Sometimes calamity comes and then
it is worth wrapping it up. And that's the end, but just don't end in the middle. Maybe on the next project
you pass, but on this one, if you signed up, see it through.
4) Life is worthwhile if you CARE. If you care at all you will get some results, if you care
enough you can get incredible results. Care enough to make a difference. Care enough to turn somebody around.
Care enough to start a new enterprise. Care enough to change it all. Care enough to be the highest producer.
Care enough to set some records. Care enough to win.
Four powerful little words: learn, try, stay and care. What difference can you make in your life
today by putting these four words to work?
To Your Success,
Jim Rohn
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Of all the things that can have an effect on your future, I believe personal growth is the
greatest. We can talk about sales growth, profit growth, asset growth, but all of this probably will not
happen without personal growth. Its really the open door to it all. In fact Id like to have you memorize a
most important phrase. Here it is, The major key to your better future is YOU.
Let me repeat that. The major key to your better future is YOU. Put that someplace you can see
it everyday, in the bathroom, in the kitchen, at the office, anywhere where you can see it everyday. The
major key to your better future is YOU. Try to remember that every day you live and think about it. The major
key is YOU.
Now, there are many things that will help your better future. If you belong to a strong, dynamic
and progressive company, that would help. If the company has good products, good services that you are proud
of, that would certainly help. If there were good sales aids, that would help, good training would certainly
help. If there is strong leadership that will certainly help. All of these things will help, and of course,
if it doesnt storm, that will help. If your car doesnt break down, that will help. If the kids dont get sick,
that will help. If the neighbors stay half way civil, that will help. If your relatives dont bug you, that
will help. If it isnt too cold, if it isnt too hot, all those things will help your better future. And if
prices dont go much higher and if taxes dont get much heavier, that will help. And if the economy stays
stable, those things will all help. We could go on and on with the list; but remember this, the list of
things that Ive just covered and many more - all put together - play a minor role in your better
future.
The major key to your better future is you. Lock your mind onto that. This is a super important
point to remember. The major key is you. Mr. Shoaff always answered when asked, How do you develop an above
average income? by saying Simple, become an above average person. Work on you. Mr. Shoaff would say, Develop
an above average handshake. He would say, A lot of people want to be successful, and they dont even work on
their handshake. As easy as that would be to start, they let it slide. They dont understand. Mr. Shoaff would
say, Develop an above average smile. Develop an above average excitement. Develop an above average
dedication. Develop an above average interest in other people. He would say, To have more, become more.
Remember; work harder on yourself than you do on your job. For a long time in my life, I didnt have this
figured out.
Strangely enough, with two different people in the same company one may earn an extra $100 a
month, and the other may earn a $1,000. What could possibly be the difference? If the products were the same,
if the training was the same, if they both had the same literature, the same tools. If they both had the same
teacher, the same compensation plan, if they both attended the same meetings, why would one person earn the
$100 per month and the other person earn the $1000? Remember here is the difference...the difference is
personal, inside, not outside, inside.
You see the real difference is inside you. In fact, the difference IS you. Someone once said,
The magic is not in the products. The magic is not in the literature. The magic is not in the film. There
isnt a magic meeting, but the magic that makes things better is inside you, and personal growth makes this
magic work for you.
The magic is in believing. The magic is in daring. The magic is in trying. The real magic is in
persevering. The magic is in accepting. Its in working. The magic is in thinking. There is magic in a
handshake. There is magic in a smile. There is magic in excitement and determination. There is real magic in
compassion and caring and sharing. There is unusual magic in strong feeling and you see, all that comes from
inside, not outside. So, the difference is inside you. The real difference is you. You are the major key to
your better future.
To Your Success,
Jim Rohn
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